Enneagram: Descriptions [Heart]
Type Two
Focused on goodness and kindness. They can become trapped by compulsive goodness, either by giving too much or by demanding too much of others. One of their talents is an intuitive ability to sense what is needed, and lovingly supply.
Ego fixation: flattery Holy idea: freedom Passion: pride Virtue: humility
2w1: Good Samaritan, Giving Lover, Public Servant Average 2w1 combines oneish judgment with twoish people-pleasing. 2w1′s are tighter and more rigid than 2w3′s, but less exacting than 1w2′s. They regulate their behavior carefully, in order to stay polite and proper. Overall, they want to put on a happy face, but because of repressed anger (from the one-wing) and repressed personal needs (from the two), their happy face is sometimes pinched with tension. They are less interested in appearing sexy and glamorous than 2w3, and they are more interested in becoming indispensible than 1w2.
2w3: Best Friend, Seductive Lover, Energetic Networker Average 2w3 is more outward than 2w1. The ambitious vanity of three combines with two's desire to be loved, and the result is someone who is not afraid to step into the spotlight. 2w3′s usually have a seductive, playful side, unlike the more serious 2w1′s. The three-wing gives them a showy, mainstream kind of appearance-consciousness. The twoish desire to please others is stronger than the threeish desire to be admired, although both desires are present.
Type Three
Focused on appearances and effectiveness. They can become trapped by compulsive deceit, of themselves or others. One of their talents is an intuitive ability to instantly adapt to rapidly shifting situations.
Ego fixation: vanity Holy idea: hope Passion: deceit Virtue: truthfulness
3w2: Affable Go-Getter, Charming Lover, Cooperative Leader Average 3w2 is the prototypical sales personality. The threeish desire to be admired is stronger than the twoish desire to please others, so it is more important to them that they look good than that they make others feel good, although they will do both if they can. Unlike the more withdrawn 3w4, they want to reach the largest possible audience. Threeish, mainstream attractiveness is flavored by twoish seductiveness, rather than fourish uniqueness.
3w4: Independent Professional, Image-conscious Lover, Prestige Elite Average 3w4 wants to be admired for unique presentation, not mass-marketed stereotypes. Unlike the 3w2′s, who want everybody to admire them, 3w4′s are more interested in securing the attention of a select following. The introspection of the four-wing makes them less comfortable than 3w2 in social situations, although the powerful threeish social grace usually hides it. Because threeish vanity is stronger than fourish emotionality, they usually manage to stay cool in times of stress, unlike the more emotionally volatile 4w3′s.
Type Four
Focused on the emotional significance of events. They can become trapped by a sense of the meaninglessness of their own life, and of the world. One of their talents is an intuitive connection to the source of beauty.
Ego fixation: melancholy Holy idea: originality Passion: envy Virtue: equanimity
4w3: Artistic Achiever, Self-conscious Lover, Distinctive Aristocrat Average 4w3 is emotionally spicy. Because of the conflict between the three-wing's desire to be in the spotlight and the four's self-conscious fear of exposure, they may alternate between extremes of extroversion and introversion. Unlike the cooler 3w4′s, 4w3′s may find it difficult (if not impossible) to stay calm when emotions come up. They are more likely to talk about their overwhelming feelings than the much more rational, analytical, withdrawn 4w5′s.
4w5: Dauntless Creator, Moody Lover, Ruthless Truthteller Average 4w5 is emotionally heavy. Powerful, passionate feelings and aesthetic appreciations swell within and then get bottled up inside. 4w5′s generally avoid expressing their feelings because they feel that no one could possibly understand them. Like 4w3, they feel special and different, but 4w5 is more likely to withdraw into sullen silence than to make a big public scene. 4w5 and 5w4 both have strong feelings which they repress, but because their feelings are stronger than their repression, 4w5′s are more aware than 5w4 of their inner emotional state. Consequently, they are more likely to become depressed. There is a kind of delicacy to 4w5 that is not usually present in 4w3.
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