Jan 2, 2025
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We have over 1k followers now. That is entirely too many. And yet, I am flattered. Thanks, y'all. Please take care of yourselves
coming to the conclusion that i rly love practicing to draw small details on bodies,,,
beauty spots. cellulite. stretch marks. keratosis pilaris. birthmarks. dimples, wrinkles, scars, freckles, everything. it's all so beautiful to me and im so fascinated by the unique constellations every single body holds.
i love using emulators
Tumblr seems to be breaking alot today. Seems like it cant handle oumas birthday. Too much chaotic energy
Starlight Glimmer is a lesbian
rebelbaze replied to your post “SWERF stands for Sex Worker Exclusionary Radical Feminist. they are...”
Except we're saying "if you feel like you have to have sex with your parnter 'so they don't feel bad' that's how rape culture works." Sex within relationships =/= sex work. Labour you consent to do to survive is not the same as sex within relationships.
understand though that the specific individual we were talking about both is a sex worker (and has no issue with consenting to it) and also is asexual and has a sexual partner. They do not particularly enjoy sex themselves but, to my understanding, they also do not dislike it. This particular individual has no issue consenting to sex they aren’t particularly interested in because they enjoy making their partner feel good. And they enjoy making their partner feel good. This specific person has no problem with this. They are not doing it so that their partner doesnt feel bad, they genuinely want to do it for the sole purpose of seeing their s/o smile.
And i understand how it is harmful to say that that should be a general rule because of course people as a whole shouldnt feel like they have to partake in sexual relations theyre not interested in and specifically do not want to please their partner. i think everyone involved recognized that. but they were telling this individual that they were being abused/were being bad for choosing to consent to sex while being ace and uninterested which is unfair considering the fact that they literally do not mind. they’re fine. no one has the right to tell them abotu the dynamics of their relationship. theyre a consenting adult and they know what theyre doing. and they definitely should not be attacked for making their own decisions in their relationship.
but yes in general dont have sex with your partner when you dont want to. do not consent so they wont feel bad or anything, consent to sex because you want to do it, whether that’s because you enjoy the sex or you enjoy some other part of it. either way make sure you are fully okay with it yourself before doing it and that theres not a part of your mind that doubts/feels uncomfortable with it.
although as a rule i generally dont like going with statements that include words like always or never because there are always exceptions to almost every situation, like the individual we were speaking of here. they have theyre own circumstances which might not fit what people usually think is ok but that doesnt mean its not ok. in the end everything’s on a case by case basis. and in this case, it’s ok.
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