#enby problems

[brew-berry-a-trash-artist]

[solarishashernoseinabook]

But are you hysterical bitch nonbinary or violent evil nonbinary?

[lgbtqiatext]

[whereserpentswalk]

Being enby is so weird because you have the same yearning that most trans people have to have had a childhood that matched your gender, but the childhood that matches your gender isn't even one our culture even has a concept of. Like, I yearn to have just been a kid in a way that had nothing to do with being a boy or a girl, to have been a cute genderless child as opposed to being something that was trained to be bred. There's almost a model for what a genderless childhood that I'll never have had looks like with enby middle schoolers with very accepting families, and I do wish I got to have that, but it's still not what I really want which is to have been recognized as genderless from birth. And there's nothing as easily expressable as having wanted to been just a boy or a girl.

[queer-cosette]

the word 'bean' being used to describe people is going to be the death of me I swear to the universe. "nonbinary bean" I never want to hear that godawful phrase again in my life, it feels so infantilising. Power to you if you like it but someone on Reddit just suggested using "good bean" in place of "good boy/girl" during sex and I honest-to-fuck hissed like an angry cat at the thought. If someone called me a good bean during sex I'd get up and leave and immediately take a fast train to the nearest abbey to see if they were looking for new nuns to take a vow of chastity.

[aceysun]

[queerasinfuckinweird]

Question for my fellow transmascs who still feel kinda sapphic for women:

Do y’all know of any good sapphic blogs that aren’t “men dni” blogs?

Cuz I consider my attraction to women to be just as gay as my attraction to men, but the grand majority of the sapphic blogs I see have “men dni” in their bios

For various reasons (some more obvious than others), I prefer to not interact with “men dni” blogs, but this has led to me feeling a bit isolated in my identity as a sapphic transmasc. I was wondering if any of y’all knew of any blogs without this restriction

If you follow/run a blog like this, please let me know! I need more sapphics on my dashboard and on my following list 😭

[neversaymayday]

Me: (at the auto body shop in sweats and a baggy tee, just looking for some new wiper blades and bulbs for my car)

Some random worker: Can I help you out there little dude?? Do you have a parent with you?

Me: Uh- I’m an adult 🙂 and no thank you!

Worker: Oh god I’m so sorry I thought you were a little teen boy 😭😭😭

THIS is why I don’t leave the house without heavy eyeliner and my docs 😭