With what type do you have the most intense chemistry? What was the type of the person with whom you shared your hottest, most intense experience? What factors play a role in attraction for you? Is it more physical, or more about the mental sparring? Or do you find yourself aroused by emotional intimacy? -ENTP (really)
I share the most intense chemistry with ENTPs such as yourself, anon. The hottest experience I’ve had has also been with an ENTP. My current theory as to why this is: ENTPs have dom-Ne, exploring what’s possible. ENTJs use dom-Te to make what’s possible, real. ENTJs will push for power and ENTPs will push for knowledge. Together, we can be limitless.
I am first and foremost attracted by an individual’s cerebral nature. For a potential partner, this is the department that holds my highest standards. I love the mental sparring, and I need to know you can keep up with me intellectually. I’m a genius, and you should be too. Obviously, the physical aspect does matter and come into play, but the high intelligence is absolutely essential.
ENTPs are blessed with a charming wit, which I wholeheartedly ADORE. They can be disorganized and messy, but will more than make up for it in the bedroom. They are highly adaptable and competent. All things I hold dear. I need someone that’s fluid.
This female ENTJ isn’t attracted to or wooed by men with power…I lust after power itself, to acquire and wield it MYSELF.
I’m not aroused by emotional intimacy in-and-of itself. As an ENTJ with dom-Te, I (subconsciously) aspire to better integrate and balance out Fi within my being. Paradoxically, thanks to Te’s need for control, I’m most aroused by being able to achieve an enthralling, passionate state of reckless abandonment with a partner.
All of the types will have experiences with their inferior function that feel “magical” to them, due to the inferior function’s elusive nature. When I’m able succumb to the intensity of emotion I feel for someone, it is temporal and fleeting. What makes it so special is that I’ve shifted into a mode of myself that I know exists..but I also know I never get to stay that way. It’s exhilarating to find that someone’s capable of having that effect on me. I treasure those moments, as my desire for that person becomes a self-fueling fire in my otherwise rather dark ENTJ heart.
Lol. I hope that provides at least some of the insight you were seeking, anon.
