Mar 20, 2020
people put under severe stress and expectations, never given any faith, encouragement or support, constantly being told their value is determined by their work and if not perfect they're worthless: Why can't I focus? Why is this simple thing so hard for me? Why do I procrastinate? Am I just lazy? Why can't I just do this? This is all my fault!
#psychological abuse#furiousgoldfish#perfectionism#executive dysfunction#lack of support#toxic environment#equating value with work#self blaming#impossible circumstances#its okay#nobody would be able to function under these conditions#your value does not change regardless of work#you are not free to focus on what you desire#because you've been trapped into proving that you have value#and you should never have to prove that