#furiousgoldfish

[furiousgoldfish]

People who are starved out of conversation will approach it as if it was sacred, people who are starved out of touch experience any touch given to them as the highest form of intimacy, people starved out of gentleness will react to it as if it’s an invasion, an attempt to break them down, and people starved out of a community will approach it as if it was a minefield.

[luthientinuvielss]

Abusers will do everything in their power to maintain a feeling of control of any aspect of their victim's life, and they will not hesitate to continually insert themselves into your life time and time again in attempt to control your emotions, your life.

They want you to feel alone, secluded, broken down, and hopeless. Do whatever you need to do to shut them out each time– as safely as you can– and stand your ground, no matter what.

[hauntedselves]

furiousgoldfish is a terf and also extremely ableist towards people with NPD

https://www.tumblr.com/dear-systems/650102295586029568/furiousgoldfish-alt-is-furious-goldfish-who

i'm aware. however their blog is a great resource for trauma & abuse and i think people can reblog extremely helpful resources from someone they're ideologically opposed to without agreeing with their worldviews.

i disagree with terfs and i support people with NPD and i'm against the idea of "narcissistic abuse". that doesn't mean furiousgoldfish's resources are any less useful.

[mischiefmanifold]

Hey all who follow us, note that @furiousgoldfish is furthering the stigmatization of a trauma disorder (NPD) by using the term “narcissistic abuse” and by using “narcissistic” as a descriptor when it is not in fact a descriptor.

NPD ≠ abuser disorder, so stop treating it like it is.

If you follow the above user and we find that you do, we will block you. We won’t deal with ableist pricks.

[dontreblogbigots]

hi, you reblogged a callout post i made about furiousgoldfish / furious-goldfish, here is a version of the post with updated links

https://sapphic-spinarak.tumblr.com/post/680578520784748544/furiousgoldfish-alt-is-furious-goldfish-who

Links updated as of 3 April 2022 - please reblog this version!

[screaming-static]

I have recently been made aware of the fact that furiousgoldfish is a terf and ableist by a lovely person who reached out to me, evidence of this will be listed below by other accounts who took the time to gather screenshots and deleted posts. I will however be keeping my pinned post up as i do believe its a helpful resource although i no longer support her.

Dreaming of Screaming

stealing the post since the op of the other was a gross exclusionist but furiousgoldfish / furious-goldfish is a bad person and very ableist

https://www.google.com/amp/s/ebbywaffle.tumblr.com/post/645916688670425088/furiousgoldfish-alt-is-furious-goldfish-who/amp

[desultory-suggestions]

hi! furiousgoldfish supports eugenics and believes ppl with npd should be forcibly sterilized, u should probably avoid reblogging them

Hi, anon! I read the links you sent me and I have a few things. One, I disagree with furiousgoldfish about NPD and that they are stigmatizing those suffering from it. This is 100% non-negotiable, they are wrong.

However, you claimed they support eugenics and believe in forced sterilization. I did not see any evidence of this in the posts you sent me and I didn't find any when searching. I may have missed it, but I read them several times. This is a huge claim to make against someone and I am going to need solid evidence of an occurrence in which they said exactly that. I refuse to label someone so harshly without proof.

This person sounds like they have severe trauma and are obviously handling it by laying blame upon a group of people rather than working through the trauma of what they went through. I will avoid sharing this person's content for that reason. I wish them all the best and hope they heal and grow, especially since those posts are from 2017 and they may already be on a positive path.

-Evan

[furiousgoldfish]

I wish adults would be quick to point out when children are being kind, understanding, smart, polite, sweet and lovely, with the same eagerness they criticize when a child does anything they don’t like.