#everythingbutharleyquinn

[thisisnotsincerity]

How many times has she had to bail out of a fandom for being toxic?  How many times was she asked to leave a forum for being too aggressive (don’t have a cap of her being asked to leave the butch-femme boards unfortunately, but it happened).  How many times has she changed the name of her blog?  How many sideblogs does she have? 

This is textbook abuser bullshit.  Smear, smear, smear.  Deflect, project, accuse.

[iamheretospillthattea]

She just won't quit...

So Elise has found a new target and the issue was about arophobia. Like always, Elise tries to spin an issue that has nothing to do with her and makes it personal. The person who said this was in no way whorephobic. Their experiences on their own and Elise wants to police this. This is a gross case of whitewashing others experiences because they don't mirror her own. Not only that but picking fights over people's personal/sexual identity is a gross case of white and class privilege. Put it like this: If Elise was working 15-18 hours a day, she would not have the energy to create drama. Her free time is dedicated to creating fights with people online for the simple fact that they don't kiss her ass. THat is disgusting. I am seriously wondering how can Zhinxy, Miss Voltarine and anyone else who defers to Elise actually defend this behavior. Can you break it down for me? Why do you treat Elise like a glass unicorn? She is a thirty five year old girl child who had power in her 20s but lost it because of her shitty behavior.

[thisisnotsincerity]

[thisisnotsincerity]

And another victim gets added to the list.

The person she's fighting this time, though!  Asexual queer woman with childhood PTSD, a history of abuse, chronic bone illnesses.  That's the person she's calling a whorephobic misogynist abuser.  Like... seriously??

How many people does Elise get to hurt?

But somehow SHE’S always the “victim”.

You’re not allowed to disagree with her royal Quincess.  You must then be lied about, deliberately misrepresented, and labeled a stalking, misogynist, whorephobe.  It’s never her.  The 35 year-old woman constantly fighting with people much younger than her.  The woman who has told teenagers that they made her physically ill because they disagreed with her.  Teenagers whom she told to “die in a fire”.  But that only counts as a legitimate death threat when it’s directed at her.  It never matters if the person she’s fighting with has their own mental illness, history of rape,molestation, and/or abuse.  Those are only acceptable factors of her own response and actions.  Never yours.

How dare you.

How many people who now dislike, if not outright hate her, were once friends and followers who finally realized she’s full of shit?

[iamheretospillthattea]

I have been getting hits from 4chan as well. I don't know what your intentions are but I will say this: I created this blog to call Elise out on her abusive and atrocious behavior. I created this blog to serve as a safe space for anyone who has dealt with her or her followers. I do NOT condone harassment or stalking of Elise. Once again, DO NOT stalk or harass Elise.

[iamheretospillthattea]

Just want to reiterate....

...although it looks as if there are a lot of us who are banding together, I want to make this perfectly clear: I am not in direct contact with otherbloggers who posted their criticisms of Elise. They made the decision to post their opinions because they wanted to and because they wanted to help their targeted friend. Elise will no doubt portray this as a 'hate campaign'. I have never been in direct contact with Em B or the 'third party' between Elise and Shan from awhile back. They made their positions known out of the own volition. I never spoke to Em and I only read the third party's post. Some have reached out to me after witness ing E's abusive behavior. Others found me through an online search. Victims of bullying/abuse have a right to gain their dignity back. I was bullied as a kid and I work in an environment where this shit happens on a fairly frequent basis, both subtle and overt. I don't play around with this shit.

[iamheretospillthattea]

Let us take a step back....

Let us put this shit into perspective. Hittosama has been stalked and labeled a misogynist by Elise because she left a concrit on her fanfiction. A person sharing their opinion IS NOT Misogyny. Someone posting a review that was thorough and analytical in its critique is NOT misogyny. This is a tired and manipulative tactic that Elise uses to label her targets. Elise is trying to turn her personal kinks and sexual fantasies into a political issue. Does anyone else here see how fucked that is? Elise is comparing erotic fanfiction between an anthropomorphic turtle and a human woman to women in Saudi Arabia getting stoned because they dare show an ankle. Elise thinks that if you do not like clown porn, you are a misogynist. Elise thinks that if you don't like fluffy porn between a cartoon turtle and a human woman, you are a misogynist. From what I am told, she pulled this shit in the Batman fandom. Irisbeacon mentioned this on a blog post several months back. How can people defend someone like this? She is causing people psychological stress because they don't defer to what turns her on. Elise picked fights with fans who wrote slash fanfiction because like Hittosama, they had an opinion. Elise is picking fights and slandering people over her personal fetishes. This is what Elise is fighting over. Her personal kinks do not represent all women. Hittosama did what MANY fans do on a fanfiction site. She left her thoughts on a story. That is an OPINION. This is NOT an act of war against women. THINK, people.

[thisisnotsincerity]

All of these unstable women who can’t let shit lie.  That’s not ableist or anything.  Unstable women.  Sounds pretty misogynist.  Nice social politics.

Well, when someone refuses to acknowledge their mistakes in a meaningful and sincere manner and they just continue to rack up new mistakes that they continue to refuse to acknowledge, shit gets pretty backed up.