#except work

[ayayayayaz]

i think it's super duper toxic how irritated I get when I see renheng being shipped with anyone else. IM SO OPEN TO MULTISHIPPING for like every ship. phaidei?? put either with castorice or anaxa. Delicious. albether?? DONT GAF. xiaother kaebedo. I'll eat it up.

BUT RENHENG?? I can't. It's unreasonable. They can't be separated. It's a problem. It's a disease.

[persepinesascent]

I do not care, but I get stupid/curious once a year, so in case anyone else is curious, just for the record:

- A year after A suddenly walked out on his nesting partner in Colorado, met me, and moved into a sailboat on the east coast...

- he (VERY) suddenly sold the sailboat, bought an RV, walked out on me, and moved to the desert

- and a year later, he suddenly sold his RV plot, and left to bop around Europe

I am almost certain there was some new nasty bitch somewhere in there too

And I don't recall the details, but he also did this kind of thing to the partner he had before his Colorado nesting partner.

In every case, he acted like a silent, cowardly, helpless, boundary-agnostic baby about his feelings/needs/stuff he didn't like, for a very long time, and then decided the solution was to simply tear everything up and burn it. And by the time he left me, he knew, this was his pattern.

And he's still doing it.

[jencsi]

This whole "show don't tell" thing in writing gets tougher and tougher to do with each passing attempt to type I make. Some things just can't be conveyed with words, they need to be seen, like on a screen, played out by a real human being to capture the correct emotion and I think that's why this whole writing thing is actually quite stupid. There's only so much you can convey with words. And when you run out, what do you do?

[heartshapedracetrack]

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[toumin]

First crochet!

[namechangeinprogress]

I wanna drink like super bad To Cope

[newusernamepending]

I appreciate that we’re being cautious but every time I have a virtual meet up with people nowadays everyone else is like “ooh I’ve been trying to dissuade my housemate from queuing for four hours for a haircut/viewing houses because our landlord’s kicking us out/illegally entering the Czech Republic” and I’m just like

“well I’ve been at home. Doing nothing.”