you have to leave your country in order to fall in love with it
I love Italy: I love the food, I love the people, I love the culture, the art.. there are so many amazing things about my country. Now, if you met me six months ago, when I was still living Italy, you’d know that I would never ever see myself saying that sentence. Actually, I used to think bad things about those who said they loved Italy- I thought that they were ignorant, very patriotic and that they had a really closed and old mindset. Turns out that it was me who had the wrong way of thinking instead.
When living at home, I used to take everything for granted, staring from friends and family, to food, traditions and culture in general; and I didn’t feel lucky to have those things- I just had eyes for those things about my life that were not so great and all I did was complain. For all my life i spitted on my hometown, describing it as worst place one could ever be, and I used to idolize the rest of the world, north America in particular. Well, coming here has thought me many things and one of the most important is that there is no perfect place to be- the only thing that changes it’s your mindset: you can be happy or sad regardless the place that you are in. You can travel as far as you want, but it is only when you get out of certain places inside of your mind, that your life can change.
That said, I still do not define myself as a patriotic person and I still think that Italy has many problems. Now I just learnt that the medal has two faces and I should look at both of them and appreciate the good side of the country that I come from.
Out of the thousands of reasons that one should travel, I think that one should travel for experiencing what it means to be homesick. What it means to crave your food, to miss the days spent laughing with your friends. To be immersed in a culture that is so immense that other people will never fully understand. One should be homesick, in order love his/her hometown as it deserves to be loved.
being away made me realize that everything I have neglected my whole life is actually worth loving and worrying for.













