kind of a turn off when a guy is scared or strongly against being feminine in any way. refusing nail polish, jewelry, even sitting certain ways--like damn how deep did being raised a man cut you to where you cant enjoy looking nice/pretty or sitting comfortably or what finger you wear a ring on? holy shit
and then those guys go on to shame other men and call them gay for those things alas keeping the patriarchy up and running
guys. men. boys. please. do not be afraid to do "girl" things. its not bad its not weak its not gay its not weird its just living your life. wear whatever you want, sit how you want, like whatever "girl" hobbies you wanna like !!
((not trying to infantilize or romanticize))












