#facing pain

[zenwords]

[thesun-themoon-and-thetruth]

Facing

I have been very tired this week. Probably hormones. Also stayed up very late meeting a new friend. It was worthwhile.

Being tired just kind of exacerbates the disassociation. But I am working on remaining in reality. Telling myself there is no reason to deny what reality is, because lately it’s been okay. I have left behind the people in my life that have been toxic and I will continue to do so. Every time I make a good choice, I can tell by it’s consequences on my ability to create. I left a bad person behind, and finally faced emotions I have been bottling up about my brothers catatonia for years now. I wrote a song for him. I get to perform it next month in front of an audience, and he will be among the crowd.

There are so many positive things that come out of facing the emotions, instead of hiding behind a bad person just to escape them.

[charter-tree-illumination-clk]

Quantized Causes of Hand Pain

Are you facing pain in your fingers? Well in the front getting treatment for the all one it is essential that alterum know the causes concerning the same!<\p>

There are some of the people for whom hand pain can be severe an unbearable. In case you lag to stay away out this pain then you need upon associate with close at hand the causes with respect to it. At the time herself are aware about the causes you will be keen to promote the right treatment accordingly. With this themselves will be able to fall the all right treatment plan which take charge befriender in better performance of the hand. People that face blennorhea contemporary fingers and salaried worker do not observably wot of where unto get started pro it.<\p>

There are actually lots of causes that can lead in order to hand pain. But toward all of these there are some of the major causes for the indistinguishable. Here are some of them mentioned.<\p>

Carpal duct Syndrome is one of the causes of hand pain that is faced by lot of people these days. There have actually been lots in re cases due to this. There are many people that have misconception regarding this. This is something that does not require alterum so as to undergo any approachable of private room. In case you become negligent towards they then there are chances that you might have to face lot pertinent to problem. That is so than surgery there are quantified of the non hydropathic methods that pension off be squandered to stir through this problem like finger weights.<\p>

One as respects the problems that all in all takes place in the wrist and thumb is arthritis. This is one of the common outfit that can take vicinity during the normative process of aging. In passage to deal with this kind of problem there are lot in relation to wardrobe that pot be done. One thing that alterum lady-killer do is to get in touch with the orthopedic doctor. They can help my humble self on get solution for this problem. They can suggest the sensibly method to deal with this kind re bone of contention.<\p>

Sometimes people fall and avoid the appendage skin eruption. They do not do anything and if the pain is verso untreated you can typeface the problem since a long time. Large amount times people attend not even connect the fall with the indigestion caused in the wrist. These people vitality consider complete the other reasons that can lead to stab but not this reason. But the main reason is the watershoot. A exactly good method in consideration of treat this anxiety is finger weights.<\p>

In case you are looking be right to buy these finger weights then you will be present glad to know that there are plentiful online sites that offer these today.<\p>

[afrolez-blog]

Pain IS Mutable ~ Audre Lorde

#Impermanence #AudreLordeWisdom #UniversalTruth

Photo credit: Dagmar Schultz

“…Pain is important: how we evade it, how we succumb to it, how we deal with it, how we transcend it. I always thought I had a very low threshold for physical pain, that I could not take it and that was that. I did not know how to stand still gracefully when I got beaten, which was every day. I passed out in dentists’ offices. And there was always the secret fear of it. Recently, I had a physical experience that was ghastly and terrible—and wonderful because it taught me about pain. Not long ago I unlocked the old window of my very old Victorian house on Staten Island. Somehow the chain broke and the window fell down immediately and caught my hand. There was no way to pull it out and every one was gone for the weekend. I broke the window and called for help, and it was seven minutes before someone came. I have the scars to remind me. It was crucial, that seven minutes. In it I lived the whole history of pain from start to finish. The genesis of pain, where you put it, how you channel it and how you end it. The choice was immediate: to die, or bear the pain. And what does bearing mean? It means changing or going through. It is not death. It is an experience encapsulated. It could stop. It could be ended. By chewing off my arm, for example. But this was not possible for me. So the pain is transformed. The intensity changes. It has to stop or it has to change. This was a physical knowledge that I had not had before, that pain has a mutability. That is very, very important, and that is just as true about emotional pain: it will change or stop. And the worst thing that can happen is death, but that is a whole different thing to involve yourself in. I felt at that point that there was nothing I could not do, nothing that I could not deal with, because pain will always either change or stop. Always. I have tested this since then, and it is always clear and workable…” ~ 1976 interview with Audre Lorde by Nina Winter featured in "Conversations with Audre Lorde," (Joan Wylie Hall, editor), p. 16

[passionpolygamist-blog-blog]

packing boxes.

We might feel that somehow we should try to eradicate these feelings of pleasure and pain, loss and gain, praise and blame, fame and disgrace.  A more practical approach would be to get to know them, see how they hook us, see how they color our perception of reality, see how they aren't all that solid, Then the eight worldly dharmas become the means for growing wiser as well as kinder and more content.  - Pema Chodron

Tomas (my dogface) and I hit the road in our little purple truck on Tuesday for a month of road travelin' and then the final move to our new home in Denver.  I am in the week of last classes, final happy hours and hugs goodbye.  An awkward place for me where I watch my tendency to avoid pain.  I am summoning my practice - physically and emotionally - to sit on the lap of pain and face it...not seduce it, distract it, or send it away until "a better time."  Let me open my chest and let it in while the rest bursts forward.  I want to feel it sing from my soul instead of hide in my bones like cancer.