#failedivf

[queerlybelovedones]

Still stuck in limbo...with everything

Our regular clinic has nothing for us. I have to get copies of the IVF, the IUIs, all the bloodwork and everything for Mt Sinai. I booked an appointment with Mt Sinai on May 17th; I'm meeting with the medical director. My current doc says that she has the most experience and will be the one to help my mind-boggling case. The biggest upset? If this IVF cycle goes boom like the last one (no embryos) then there's no point in trying again. My eggs are clearly useless. Mt Sinai has a 2-3 year waitlist for embryo donation (to receive) and I don't know what I would do. I can't imagine waiting that long (for something that won't work for sure), but what other options? Surrogate (using their egg?), that costs thousands for paperwork to adopt. Private adoption? $20K. My wife and I always talked about fostering after having our own kid. It was our plan. But if we don't have our own kid, when will we foster? We don't see fostering as a way to adopt so maybe we just foster any we can. Suggestions? Ideas? Thoughts?

[ramyamishra]

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[10fingerscrossed]

A Bitter Sunday

Today I am pissed. Mad because we are back from vacation (can’t life just be a permanent vacation??) and mad because I took a test this AM and it was negative. Pretty sure I am 12 DPO, ughhhhhhhh! I was really hoping I would be one of those 2x failed IVF’ers who had a miracle of having a BFP the cycle after. ARGHHHHHHHH!!! I am just so pissed off that I am STILL not pregnant. And oh, all my sisters pregnancy FB posts are also starting to really irritate me. Everyday I have to see on FB that “today I can finally eat!” and “1 more week until the gender reveal.” Talk about irritating!!! But then I look at my sweet doggies faces or my husbands blue eyes and I feel a little bit better. 

[drsatterfield13]

If I am not pregnant, I want my body back...

When you decide to take on the challenge of IVF, you read a number of articles and health blogs about how IVF will take a toll on your body. Between the medications, shots, blood tests, ultrasound monitoring and procedures, you will feel like your body is constantly being poked, prodded and on display. However what the doctors and articles do not tell you is about how your body will feel when IVF does not result in a pregnancy.

After our failed fresh IVF cycle, I didn’t really feel the struggle with my body because we immediately took the steps to proceed with a FET. Now after almost three weeks since we found out that our FET resulted in yet again another BFN and we have stopped all treatments, I feel like I am struggling to find that non-fertility treatment body.

I have been trying everything I can to try to get my body back in the swing of things. Eating healthy, started a 90-day fitness challenge with workouts everyday. Staying active and trying to find other things to focus on besides infertility. Yet I still feel like my body is foreign to me.

I had gotten so use to wearing estrogen patches, that I find myself rubbing my belly and missing that they are not there anymore. My hormones are still all over the place with headaches, tenderness in my breasts and ovulation pain that is similar to ovarian stimulation. My stomach is still bloated, which makes me self conscious to wear a bikini, certain tops or dresses because I look like I am pregnant but I’m not.

I know that pregnant women experience similar situations before and after their pregnancies, but at least they have the reward of creating a child and bringing life into the world. As women who don’t get pregnant, we go through this roller coaster with what feels like the added punishment that are bodies are failing us.

I am trying to be patient and give my body to time to repair itself, but I find myself getting angry that this is yet again another obstacle that I have to deal with on this infertility journey.