#familiaralien

[nightshadowfoxart-moved]

🎂🎉🎁 Happy birthday @familiaralien !! 🎁🎉🎂 I hope you have a great day!!

[pyreflydust]

@familiaralien replied to your post:

Gender role kinda stuff is dumb and stinky anyway. Just be yourself and use whatever gender pronouns make you comfy.

Yeah that is unfortunately something that took until a bit into adulthood for me to get, and I still struggle with it.

And personally? My feelings about my gender are pretty well summed up by the shrug emoji a good chunk of the time. A lot of times I think “My gender is whatever you want it to be. I don’t even care.” I have she/they as my pronouns in my bio, but I wouldn’t really be bothered by people using he either. I don’t think I’d like any outside those three, but that’s mostly because they confuse my poor brain that sometimes mixes up first, second, and third person pronouns let alone introducing new ones. (I will use them for someone else if they prefer them, I just don’t want them for me.)

But I continue to id as a woman mostly because it’s less complicated and my gender feels are so apathetic that even seeing myself as non-binary feels like it requires caring more than I do. I don’t know I guess most of the time my gender feels like it’s no more a part of my identity than my hair and eye colors. It’s just... there.

@biggcaz replied to your post:

I took that shit for granted where I lived. Girls and boys just wore what they wanted and were into whatever they wanted. When I grew up and went to college, I was so confused by what people were on about with conforming to gender and what not. Its a social shit show.

Yeah, that’s it exactly. It’s performance. A lot of middle school for me was expected performance of things I didn’t measure up in. And when you’re an insecure kid getting bullied, those things can hold more weight. Especially when the adults who could stop the bullies are also feeding you shit about how people would like you if you conformed to your gender better.

My mom luckily never gave me that since she is of a similar level of not conforming to gender that I am, but the school psychologist and such sure as shit were found of telling me I should try harder to be a proper girl.

[necromorph-slayinglovemachine]

Looking over that post from acegermwarfare you reblogged all I can think about is the fact I've seen nerds ship characters that literally never interacted before in the story and by the end of the story one was dead. At least it sounds like Maya and Krieg had a nice positive interaction so the ship at least makes sense!

Bottom line I ain’t wanna see ANY shittin on Psyren when Zer0, a character in the same damn series, can explicitly state disinterest in partners in the Valentine’s Day dlc yet people can still ship them to their hearts’ content without a single whiny post to be seen

[billygnosis]

trying to prove a point to delanie

familiaralien replied to your post: updated callout post

Ew don’t do that

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[strontiumsun]

I was taking (note: the past tense) requests on twitter and G @familiaralien asked for a non-specific sphynx cat. So I did a quick drawing of one. This is my first time drawing a sphynx cat! I think they’re kinda cute.

[lesbianfoxgirl]

familiaralien replied to your post: i do wonder why crystal isn’t being released on...

Yeah and in crystal you also get to play as a girl! Even though I figured out later I was a trans guy I really appreciated being able to play as someone that look more like me as a kid.

tbh that’s one of the reasons why crystal was my favourite of the gen 2 games! being able to play as a girl for the first time in a pokémon game when i was a kid was one of the best things about crystal to me. i remember being rather excited about it.

[pointatthesky]

@familiaralien I found your stash of tacky rave-pop party gear!

[imaheroitsayssoonmybracelet]

familiaralien replied to your photo “@mortymcfli here’s your aesthetic happy new year”

I don't know this person but its a very good aesthetic

hey, thank you!!! <3 I think it’s pretty accurate for her! I’ve reblogged like a billion aesthetic post but apparently very little has really sunk in so I’m trying to figure it out still