Why do you pretend to be a hereditary witch just to make other people jealous? There's no such thing as hereditary witchcraft, and calling yourself one is just trying to make yourself better than all the other Wiccans out there!
I can’t say I haven’t been expecting this, with the way my one post from way back when has been circulating.
1. I am not a Wiccan. I have never claimed to be Wiccan, I know very little about Wicca, and haven’t managed to get through one book about it. No offense meant to any Wiccans out there.
2. I am not “pretending” to be a hereditary witch. I have friends who have met my family and are always a little bemused (I think) on the things that go on. @princess-starr is a skeptic, but she always ends up with a weird story or two.
3. Wicca is new. There are many other forms of magic and witchcraft that have been passed on, from various faiths and no faiths at all. These can be passed down multiple ways, but through a family is most common. In my family it used to be from one generation to the next, alternating genders. However, Great-Great Grandma Jane feared that it could die out in such a way, and changed it to include all children. Thus, we have survived.
4. I hear this idea of trying to make non-famtrad./hereditary witches jealous…and I don’t get it! I really don’t. First generation witches come to the craft with no traditions or rules in place. That’s amazing! They don’t have anyone standing over their shoulder critiscising what ingredients their using, or the meter of their incantations and chanting. They don’t have lessons and homework on uses of plants in first grade, or Latin lessons when all you want to be doing is playing with a puppy or going to the pool as a kid. A first generation witch can just whip out a pen and create a spell, then shove it in a spellbook! And they can do this in the first month they practise! Heck, the first day if they like! In contrast, let’s look what happens when I try my hand at spellcrafting.
Well, first you have to study for seven years before you’re allowed to cast anything, and then when you are allowed, you have to be supervised for a year. Trust me, you aren’t doing any beauty spells or get you some spells with your dad over your shoulder.
In most cases, I have to research (usually for a few days) and cite my sources, including looking for older spells to do the same thing,
Then it gets debated over the dinner table by my family, where everyone gives me advice (that I probably won’t use anyway) and check my magical theory, and suggest other spells that already exist, which I may or may not have found.
Then if I continue with it, I am supervised during the first casting by someone (usually my dad or my aunt) taking notes on every single thing I do.
I then have to track the spell, listing every possible consequence that comes up that could have been associated with it. Every single one. That can take months.
After I’m done, at least three other people cast it exactly as I did, and track their consequences and results.
Then after THAT, they rip it apart, trying to make it better/stronger/more efficient what have you, and the process begins again.
After this, which may be over a year later, sometimes longer if the spell has gone through more than two permutations, I get to cast it again, and if the results that I track this time, line up, then I can ask for it to go into the spell lists.
A first generation witch also isn’t bound to magical family gatherings that interrupt your life in ways you might not expect. “You can’t go to D&D today, it’s your great-grandmother’s birthday, it doesn’t matter that she’s dead!” “What do you mean you have to work tonight? There’s a casting at eight!” “When are you going to find a nice lass and settle down @calyhex?” “Did you check the cards before you did that?” “No, don’t plant that there!”
Am I saying being a hereditary is a bad thing? No. I’m only saying that first generation witches and fam. trad. witches have differences, and the grass is always a little bit greener.
Being from a famtrad does not make you witch royalty. It doesn’t give you any power over anyone else (except possibly baby siblings or cousins because seniority or bribery material). It doesn’t make you super-special. It doesn’t make you more powerful than the witch down the street. Literally the only thing it means is that you learned from a different source of information. Being famtrad isn’t better, it’s only different.