Popularity in Fandom Spaces
I've noticed a couple trends in relation to popularity over the few years across multiple fandom spaces.
Being "popular" while verbally eschewing popularity is something I've noticed becoming an art form. There's a specific level of self-effacing and humbling to be put on before accepting more compliments. Often hand-in-hand with humble-bragging.
Along with that is the cold-shoulder popularity brings. Where you've reached an arbitrary status where you mainly interact with the people who keep building your compliments and ignore those who are new or "lesser". You must be this tall to ride -> You must support me this much to be part of my inner circle.
Social media has likely played a huge part into this. It's so much easier now to have "proof" of popularity in online spaces. And we all like getting recognition for hard work and compliments. If you spend hours working on writing or art, of course you want to hear it!
But I've also seen that popularity suck the joy out of hobbies for new people who are excluded. Especially if there's an unspoken expectation to fawn over the 'right' people to be part of the club.
If you don't click with someone, that's cool. But at least try to be kind. Don't exclude them or make them feel stupid for not knowing something. Fandom should be open to everyone, not an exclusive club.








