#fandom sad

[the9to5grindsmysoultodust]

Hey, I'm sorry. I feel truly sorry for the people who wanted something different from the Loki series, than what we are apparently getting. I get it, I do, I've been on that side of Fandom before, and it sucks.

But that is NOT AN EXCUSE to treat the actors, creators, or OTHER TUMBLR USERS, in any disrespectful or hurtful ways!

Be upset. You have a right to be. But process those feelings. Decide if continuing with the show is going to make you more upset, or if it's going to be okay.

DO NOT take those feelings out on people who are just trying to enjoy things!

No amount of anon hate has ever changed a person's mind.

And I KNOW those of you in the LGBTQ+ community are frustrated 😤, I understand that. I KNOW that you deserve more than the breadcrumbs and tables scraps of "representation" that you get. I KNOW it's not fair and I'm sorry😔

But to sum up, I'm just out here trying to find my own little nuggets of joy in this awful world. Please don't destroy them, don't take them from me just because you're angry.

It's okay to be angry, to be upset. It's okay to be disappointed. But it's NOT okay to hurt others, to bully them, or try to bring them down.

Stop sending hate and attacking blogs that don't share your opinions. Find other blogs. Find your own community.

Stop this inter-fandom hate. It hurts all of us and helps none of us

[sarahthecoat]

I just this minute learned that @skulls-and-tea deactivated, and i'm Having A Moment.

:(

[owl-song]

The more I see of Thor:Ragnarok, the less desire I have to see it.  Which makes me sad, because I’d already given up on the mess that is the main MCU, so it looks like it may be time to abandon this fandom altogether.

Black Panther, you’re my last hope.

[stillnotanonymous]

Apropos of nothing.

As critical as I am of fandom (especially the one I'm in), the whole "fandom sucks" rhetoric brings me down. Is bringing me down. If "fandom sucks" and I'm an active part of it, what am I? 

Meandering thoughts as I await new canon that will annoy and frustrate me.

[amarantines]

People in the Bakura/Ryou fandom who don't run in awful cliques need to be friends with me. I want so badly to have a good fandom to hang with, I just don't want to be abused and harassed into agreeing with everyone else just to hang with it. I really love discussing things with people and am always open to new ideas, because that's what is most fun about fandom for me. I never shout down other people's enjoyment of any one thing, but apparently I have a lot of people who think that I'm extremely vocal.

I'll say this. When I feel like someone is targeting me, I fight back. I am very vocal then. Thiefshipping fandom has a lot of ridiculousness surrounding it that's complicated. I wanted to find a fandom where I didn't have to fight back so much, and just have fun.

I thought that tender fandom might have been that one, but I'm finding that I was wrong about it. I still love the pairing, but I might make a new blog to contribute, or I just won't share anything on my tumblr from now on. If we do fic or things like that, it will probably go up on a ff.net account or AO3.

I'm really just a regular girl who likes some ships and doesn't want to be hated on, but I don't tolerate being disrespected, either. The end. If you're like that too, I hope we can be friends.