Did you ever get annoyed by hardcore fedri shippers not people doing it for fun but with the ones who genuinely believes it. And the ones who came off as actually homophobic because they are so set in their shipping dynamic where even the mention of bottom ferran set them off, like they couldn't even fathom the idea that the man they consider as masculine might like being on the receiving end so they go way out of their way to effeminate the other person.
its a bit off putting for sureee, and even as someone who enjoys a/b/o and just common rpf, sometimes dynamics get written so hetero normatively (??) like r we aware that no matter the s€x dynamic, its still two men??








