Hey. I've been reading through your posts and I'm really excited about becoming a femboy. I am just starting and I've got a sort of... husky build. (I'm 166 and 5'11.) So I was wondering if you had any... tips that could help me be cute or more... like... cute xD. I really love what you had to say about Femboys not being just... sex toys. It made me love you thissssssssssssssssssssssss much more. I love you and all you do, ~Anon. P.S. You are super adorable. o.o
Thanks dude! I try!
The best advice I can give you is to find your most feminine qualities and draw attention to those areas. Let me break up the core elements here:
A. Hurr
A good rockin’ hairstyle is absolutely VITAL to a femboy’s look. The directions and angles of your hair can give your face an entirely different (and in this case more feminine) perspective. ‘Tis the cherry on top of the banana split of cute, feminine, and masculine flavours of ice cream drizzled with fashion syrup (and some nuts) that is a femboy.
(Can I get a cookie for that analogy)
B. Make it up
Makeup always helps around the face of course. Watch many videos, find out what you like, and what to apply where according to you face shape. Don’t be afraid to walk up to a MAC counter or whatever and ask “How the flippin’ fuckaroo do I do this?” Because they will teach you some good tricks, and help you find what you need. Bringing a picture or two along for reference is always a good idea. (Same goes for getting your hair cut)
C. Clotheses
There are clothes that accentuate certain areas and cover others specifically. If you have a hard time finding a garment that does this how you want, there is always the option of going to a tailor and having something fitted precisely to your preference. It is important to realize you will have to cross to the “womens” side of the store. So suck it up and try on some clothes IN-STORE. Because there’s no other way to figure out what fits you how, where, and why. Just don’t go overboard with overly feminine clothes at first. Ease into it.
D. Axe-sessorize
The way to spice up any outfit or curb it’s style in a new direction is with simple accessories. They can turn a simple or boring outfit into something really special. For example: Jeans and a white shirt. Spike the hair, throw a studded belt on, black/black converse, bandana around the neck, spiked wristbands, and suddenly it’s punk! Take the same outfit but instead, throw on some ray bans, trucker cap, flip flops, shark tooth necklace, rope string bracelets, and suddenly you look like a surf rat.
Bam. You got tha powah.
I hope this helps with some basics when starting out.
Yours truly,
~Kaiba