i loved your jay “how he’d pursue his crush” writing, could you make one for jungwon??
“How Jungwon Falls (and Fumbles) for His Crush | A Chaotic-Softboy’s Guide to Love”
(brought to you by your neighborhood tarot gremlin with a sass mouth and a heart full of memes)
So. You wanna know how Jungwon acts around his crush?
Buckle in, bestie, because this boy is a romantic mess of contradictions wrapped in emotional origami.
Emotionally constipated introvert energy
When Jungwon catches feelings, the first thing he does is… retreat.
Like, full-on “delete his social battery, hide in his metaphorical cave, and overanalyze everything” vibes. He’s not running away he’s just panicking. Internally. Quietly. Elegantly. (Cue ‘The Hermit’ core.)
He's the kind of guy who starts liking you and immediately gets really weird around you. Stiff smiles. Nervous silences. Avoiding eye contact like it’s his job. Suddenly can’t speak like a human. Iconic.
Lowkey control freak, highkey softie
Listen this man WANTS to lead the romance game, he wants to be confident, in charge, the cool one.
But the moment emotions enter the chat? King of Wands reversed + Emperor reversed energy hits like a truck.
He's stumbling through vulnerability like a baby deer in designer boots.
He’s thinking 30 steps ahead: “What if I confess and it ruins everything?”
“What if I don’t confess and they move on?”
“What if they see my weird side??”
(Newsflash, Jungwon, we like your weird side.)
Mr. Subtle Flirtation (aka do they even know I like them??)
He’s not the “loud flirt, heart-eyes in public” type. Oh no.
He’s the “remember your coffee order, silently worry about your jacket in the cold, makes sure you’re on the right side of the sidewalk” kind of guy.
It's giving “love language = acts of service and panicked glances.”
That said he’s not going to rush anything.
Knight of Pentacles reversed says: snail pace activated.
He’s building a foundation, earning your trust, making you laugh all while pretending it’s totally platonic. (Sir. Very Haechan coded no lie)
Internal crisis arc
As the feelings grow, so does the inner chaos:
He's obsessing over mixed signals, regretting every slightly awkward interaction, and replaying convos in his head like a Netflix rerun.
There’s some heartbreak trauma in there too (hellooo Ten of Swords reversed + Five of Cups) so he might be scared of being too much or getting hurt again.
Result? He second guesses everything.
One minute he’s plotting the perfect moment to tell you, the next he’s spiraling about whether you even like him back.
But when he does move? It’s magic.
Eventually, the boy wakes up and says: enough overthinking, let’s make a move.
The Magician + The Lovers energy kicks in and suddenly
Boom. Confession arc unlocked.
It’s not flashy. It’s not over-the-top.
It’s genuine. Earnest. Straight from the heart.
The kind that makes you go: “wait, you liked me this whole time??”
Yes, bestie. The whole time.
Relationship vibes: tender chaos
Once he's in, he's all in. Loyal. Devoted. Soft. A little possessive (lowkey jealous but will never say it out loud) and occasionally overwhelmed by how hard he’s fallen.
He’ll learn to open up more, trust more, love more openly.
But baby, you're gonna have to be patient at first.
He needs gentle encouragement, emotional safety, and a bit of teasing to coax him out of his self-protective shell. But once you do?
He’s a walking love letter with a silly smile.
Final vibe check?
Jungwon is a quiet storm of affection, nerves, and deep sincerity.
He acts chill, but he's got crush-on-you butterflies doing parkour in his chest.
He’s not the fastest mover, but once he makes his choice?
And that? That’s the kind of love that lasts.
He’s all yours. Softly. Completely.