Jerry Wise: emotional abuse narcissistic parents make you think is normal (so you grown up taking such treatments as normal and getting abused by others through your life):
1.verbal abuse 2.gaslighting 3.emotional neglect 4.conditional love
5.parentification 6.scapegoating 7.silent treatment 8.emotional manipulation (guilt, shame, etc.) 9.isolation 10.enmeshment 11.we are forced to be their extension 12.roles (golden child, scapegoat, codependent, black-sheep, etc.)











