If At First You Don’t Succeed
Often times we hit walls or closed doors when trying to accomplish a task/goal in life. Does that stop you? Do you then shrug it off, say “oh well”, and give up? Or do you begin to find ways to figure out strategically how to go around that wall or closed door? Are you then looking for an open window?
With the recent work-life balance changes made in my life (thanks to the pandemic), I have found myself facing quite a few obstacles. Being a full-time mom to an active 6mo old, a full-time Administrative Assistant, a full-time wife (with only 2 years experience), and all of the other hats that I tend to wear, life has been interesting. To be perfectly honest, I’m still learning how to be present for what’s most important and not allow too many things to fall by the wayside. (prioritizing & all) Thankfully, my daughter is getting to an age where she can sit and play for at least a couple of minutes while I take a bathroom break or grab a quick bite, and she has enough toys to keep her occupied for a mommy breather throughout the day. In a moment of transparency and honesty, sometimes those quick minutes aren’t enough. Sometimes, Mommy needs a nap, especially when Tori doesn’t want to take one. Or Mommy needs a coffee break or to run to the store without carrying a carseat or diaper bag.
During the work day, I often try to put her in the jumper or have some playtime on her blanket with her toys and quickly try to complete a task. When that doesn’t work, as it often fails, I find myself frustrated and overwhelmed. I try to forge ahead while holding a rambunctious child in my arms who loves to help mommy type, make phone calls and scroll the web. And what does that do? Truthfully, it further frustrates me.
Tonight, as I was preparing for bath time, it dawned on me, “If at first you don’t succeed, try again.” Yes, she may not want to sit in her jumper or play on her blanket with her toys at that time, but possibly, after a few minutes of kisses and hugs from mommy, who’s to say she’ll have the same reaction. This theory can also be applied to LIFE. If you’re stuck in a rut, facing a challenge, recovering from something that “almost” took you out, there are still other opportunities for success.
No matter what your wall or closed door may be, I want to challenge you to try again. Even if the obvious doesn’t work, don’t be afraid to chose the path less traveled. Trust the plan that has been made for your life by your Creator, our Almighty God, and push forward. It is my prayer for you (and me), that God will show us the way to take and that He will open doors that no man can shut, make ways out of no way (unveil the hidden path).
“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” - Joshua 1:9