The secret of happiness is different for everyone but I know a couple things that will help everyone find theirs. 1. Stop comparing yourself to others! Comparison is the thief of joy. You don't know someone else's journey, what they've had to go through to get to where they are or even if they're truly happy themselves. Stop comparing your behind the scenes to their highlight reels. Everybody's journey is different. Focus on yours and not someone else's. If you aren't concentrating on your own journey, you'll never get to where you want to be. 2. Stop paying attention to what others think or say about you. What others think of you is none of your business anyway. Often the people saying the negative things do it to get under your skin. They're, many times, miserable people who want company in their misery. They delight in hurting others because it makes them feel better about themselves. The secret is, nobody's light ever burned brighter by blowing out someone else's candle. In fact it makes theirs shine that much less. Here's the thing, you're not going to be for everybody and that's ok. You don't have to be. What you DO have to be is ok for yourself. Focus on those who lift you up, encourage and support you and who tell you the hard truth with genuine love. Doing these two things may not bring you happiness in its entirety, but they sure will help your outlook and your "in look" and it will help you on your way to finding your own secret to happiness. #TheSecret #SecretOfHappiness #Happiness #YouBeYou #ForgetTheOthers #FocusOnWhatMatters #IgnoreTheHaters #WisdomIsBetterThanAdvice #MomTalk #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #RGPTribe #Influencer https://www.instagram.com/p/CT7JjVpFD96/?utm_medium=tumblr
