hello ! this might be a bit of a weird ask , so you absolutely don't have to answer this if you don't want to !
i used to be anti mspec mono [bi lesbians, lesboys, etc] but i recently became a supporter of such and have been trying to do my best to be respectful and make mspec mono individuals feel safe and welcome.
i think im starting to recognize how you guys probably feel. the anxiety of being outcasted just because you don't identify the "right" way.
one of my closest friends was willing to block one of our other friends just bc one of their alters identifies as mspec gay. completely cut them off just because of that.
it's so crazy to me, and i'm so sorry i was ever like that to y'all. i really hope all of y'all in this community are doing well. /gen
Thank you so much, I used to be an anti myself and it was really just our of internalized homophobia and terf rhetoric. I hope you’re doing well and you find better friends <3 /gen