Ok I am really tired right now but I just thought of something.... bear with me.
You know the Radfem "Personality types" right? You know like Nicefem, Factfem, Rudefem, Freakfem? I think they are not so much "Personality types" but rather "Stages". I call it
The Stages of Radfem
They are not necessarily but often in this order.
(Also they mimic directly the Stages of Grief. (Coincidence?))
Peak trans/ Peak Patriarchy - the moment you see through the bullshit, often paired with the feelings of shock, despair and Depression (the "no hope for women" stage but also the learning stage where you gobble up everything you can learn about Feminism)
Nicefem - you wanna discuss with others but you think you can convince them with beeing nice to them, the Stage of Denial, you still think society cares about (for example) rape victims because they say they do (they do not)
Factfem - you realized that beeing nice gets you nowhere plus you've gotten your first insults and deaththreats, you think "surely they will listen to facts if I tell them about it" , the Stage of Bargaining
Rudefem - you just don't care anymore, stage of anger, you lash out, why should you be nice to them if they are assholes to you?
Freakfem - Acceptance, you accept the world as it is and now use all your energy to make do with what you have, you surround yourself with like minded women and shitpost, you organize, go to and create women only events and places and try to life your life to the fullest
