Please gimme answers to all the recent selfship asks for the cactus and his blossom, i need more content of my otp--
Aaaaaaa fren elli i’m sorry this one took so long :((
How does your F/O respond to seeing you hurt or upset? Do they act caring or immediately go into “who do I have to beat up?” mode, or both?
If I’m hurt, he’s usually resorting to caring if the danger has clearly already passed. He’ll pick me up to bring me to a mender to take care of my injuries while begging me to tell him what happened. If someone hurt me, he asks if they’re still out there so he can go take care of it for me. If I’m upset, he gets angry. He gets aggressive about my emotions but will back down if I make it clear I need comfort.
Does your F/O let you have independence and wait for you to come to them when something is wrong, or are they always checking in while concerned for your wellbeing?
It depends. Usually, he lets me come to him, but if it’s after I’ve had a breakdown and fallen into the depths again, he checks on me. He doesn’t want me to be upset and not have him there if I need him in those times, because he knows I won’t reach out.
Is your F/O ever willing to put themselves in harm’s way for you? If so, describe what you predict or imagine, or a time when they have before.
Absolutely, constantly. With the Nightmare Court and all the dangers that exist, he’s almost always putting himself in danger. He tries to keep himself as safe as he can while doing it, but given how the Court is… sometimes that is far easier said than done.
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Do you and your F/O sleep together at night? Is there a specific sleeping arrangement? Who hogs the blankets and pillows?
We sleep together as often as we can, and we’re both pretty massive cuddlers, so we’re usually clinging to each other. If it’s really hot at night (like it has been recently), he more presses to the wall and lets me rest against his chest… or he straight up lets me sleep on top of him. I end up covered in the blankets not because I steal them, but because he ends up pushing them off in his sleep to let his leaves breathe.
Has there ever been a REALLY big argument between you and your F/O? What was it about? How did you two resolve it?
With how I am with arguments… no. It’s really not an argument if one party backs down the second a voice is raised and starts apologizing for making the other angry. He was warned about me doing that beforehand, though, so he knows to try not to do it.
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How do you think your F/O would propose to you? If they already have, describe how it went!
Hmm… It’d be a 50/50 shot of spur of the moment or something he planned out for months ahead. If he planned it, he’d probably want to make sure I had a really nice day away from my family, and he’d hold me against his chest while watching the stars when he does.
Name your biggest fear. Now name your F/O’s. Are they similar in any way? Do they come from similar origins or events in your lives? How do you help each other manage your fears?
My biggest? Oh… Judgment is the best way to say it, I guess. His is probably… not actually being able to change from the Canach that fucked up Southsun. He keeps an eye out for me and comes up with excuses if I need to leave a situation for being overwhelmed, and I soothe him when the fears act up… Reminding him of just how much better and wonderful he is.
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Does your F/O have any creative hobbies? If so, what are they? If you have similar hobbies, do you and your F/O encourage each other or work together at all?
Does blowing things up or creating explosives count? He’d like it to. He’s very creative with his bombs. He’s been trying to get into some other things, but he hasn’t found any instruments or visual things that he enjoys as much as explosives.
What’s your favorite way to be touched by your F/O? Were either of you touch starved before your relationship developed?
We absolutely were. For different reasons, neither of us had ever really had a real relationship before each other… And we adore cuddles and smooches. He loves holding me in his lap while kissing me.
What’s you and your F/O’s morning routine? What about the bedtime routine?
What’s routine? We have no routines for anything ever.
Have you and your F/O ever pranked each other? If so, what was your funniest prank? Did a prank war happen?
Our pranks are completely at random, and usually very lighthearted. I can’t say what the funniest is, because it’s more of us startling or lightly scaring each other.
Do you know your F/O’s likes and dislikes? Do they match up with any of yours?
We both hate Anise. And we both love night time and the moon, it’s so nice. There are others that we both enjoy or not, but, well… Hard to think of them all.