one of my good friends finally got her vaginoplasty after years of back and forth and she sent me some voice notes today and she’s doing great! and she thanked me for being there all these years (totally unnecessary as it has been a privilege) and told me that today she got to look in the mirror and her body finally feels like hers and I’m not crying you’re crying and this is why women’s rights and trans rights and accessible healthcare are so important











