Te amoure: Your future spouse’s love language
𝙷𝚎𝚕𝚕𝚘 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚒𝚎𝚜! 𝚃𝚘𝚍𝚊𝚢𝚜 𝚙𝚊𝚌 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚌𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚜 𝚊𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚏𝚜𝚙 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚐𝚞𝚊𝚐𝚎, 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚒𝚛 𝚏𝚊𝚟𝚘𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝚊𝚋𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚘 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚢𝚘𝚞. 𝙴𝚗𝚓𝚘𝚢 𝚖𝚢 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚝𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 💓💕💕
𝚃𝚑𝚎𝚜𝚎 𝚒𝚖𝚊𝚐𝚎𝚜 𝚍𝚘 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚋𝚎𝚕𝚘𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚖𝚎, 𝙸 𝚌𝚘𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚖 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝙿𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚝. 𝚃𝚊𝚛𝚘𝚝 𝚒𝚜𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚊 𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚞𝚖 𝚝𝚘 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜 𝚕𝚒𝚏𝚎 𝚍𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜. 𝙸𝚝’𝚜 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚏𝚞𝚗 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚌𝚕𝚊𝚛𝚒𝚝𝚢, 𝚍𝚘𝚗’𝚝 𝚝𝚊𝚔𝚎 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚍 𝚜𝚘 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚜𝚕𝚢.
𝚃𝚊𝚔𝚎 𝚍𝚎𝚎𝚙 𝚋𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚑𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚌𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏. 𝙿𝚒𝚌𝚔 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚒𝚖𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚌𝚊𝚕𝚕𝚜 𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚢𝚘𝚞. 𝙸𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚍𝚘𝚗’𝚝 𝚏𝚎𝚎𝚕 𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚗𝚎𝚌𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚖𝚎𝚜𝚜𝚊𝚐𝚎 𝚒𝚜 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎.
5 of pentacles, 2 of wands, 6 of cups rx, King of swords rx, The magician, The sun, The lovers
Okay pile 1, I’m getting your fsp does not know how to express themselves well when it comes to love. As I was shuffling, it took quite a while to get some cards and it was quiet. Your fsp would take quite some time before they open up to you and you see their lovey dovey side. They want you to know that they really love you and it’s just hard to show that because of their bad upbringing where emotions were not tolerated, being sad or showing affection was considered weakness and your person is still trying to shake off the strong hold that toxic way of life has on them. Their love language is quality time, also making active plans for the future, your future since they grew up in an unstable home. They really like looking to the future, envisioning the best possible outcomes and providing. They are very protective of you and don’t tolerate people trying to disrespect you. You are their sunshine, one of the best things to come into their life 🥺💗 they literally manifested you into their life, they are so in love with you, you complete them, their perfect half. I’m getting they love providing for you, anything you want, they’ll find a way to make it a reality.
Favorite things about you
“There are so many things to love about you. I love your goofy smile, the way you dress when it’s just you and me alone. Wearing those sweatpants and your hair up in a messy bun, when you joke around and play video games with me. I love that with you I can be myself, I don’t have to always pretend that nothing matters or I’m a robot with no feelings. You shower me with so much affection and love me like I’m worth it, I love it when you kiss my eyelids and my nose, the way you gently cup my face like I’m fragile and kiss my forehead. You make me melt, I could almost cry at your tenderness. I love how you’re so kind to everyone and you love your life without the fear of anyone judging you, so youthful, so exuberant. You’re everything that I’ve ever wanted, needed. You’re the only good thing in my life, you’re my wish come true. I was such in a bad place before you came along, you were such a surprise. Never in a million years did I think I’ll ever see you in the place I did. You put an end to my sorrows and misery. I was entrapped in such a toxic mindset. I didn’t know what it meant to love someone, I didn’t know what it meant to feel something that was not anger or pain. I love how you celebrate the little things, how you romanticise life and you’re jolly like nothing can get you down. I love how you’re possessive of me, I love how you love me, you cherish me and you think I’m the best thing since sliced bread hahahah. I love how I’m the only one who has you, you’re mine and always would be. You’re my Queen and you own my heart, you’ll always have it. I love how you call me out on my bullshit, my self sabotaging nature and everything. There’s so much to love about you and I could go all day, believe me but right now this is where I have to end it. I’m sorry my love but I got to go. I know how much you love to be praised and complimented but others are waiting hahahaha. You’re the only one I see a future with.”
Such a sweet message oof my heart 😩😩
Things they love to do with you
“I like gaming with you, I love movie nights, I love game nights where we play monopoly or scrabble. I love when we have a spa day and we apply make up and all those facial creams and stuff. I love being a homebody with you. I like when we can talk about the past… the stuff that hurt us. It’s therapeutic. Talking about the childhood trauma we both endured and bonding on the similar situations we’ve been through. Talking about your/my mother that hurt us. I love when we talk about our future together and what we’d do, I love when we talk about all the things we’d get and how perfect our life would be. I love making love to you, I want to build a family with you, I just want to spend time with you and be free. I love doing puzzles and quizzes with you, love playful banter and teasing you.”
Wow pile 1, your fsp was initially quiet at first but then took over to say the words they wanted to say. That’s just how they’ll be like with you. 💕💕
Ace of wands, The sun, 7 of cups, The wheel of fortune, 9 of pentacles, 9 of wands, Ace of cups, Strength, 6 of swords, King of swords, 2 of wands, The world, The high priestess, The magician
Okay pile 2, this person feels a lot for you. This person is very passionate and exudes masculine energy to me hehehe. I asked and this person was like “Kisses! Hugs, physical touch like duh that’s the way to show someone you love them.” Lmaooooo. This person also believes in gifts giving, very traditional and old fashioned in the ways of courting. It’s giving chivalry. They love to shower you in gifts and money, surprising you with every gift and act of love. You’re just their type, they don’t know how to withhold their affection for you or play it cool like you. I’m getting the idea you’re the introverted one in the relationship and they’re the one who does the most in PDA. They also love traveling so expect planned trips to the Bahamas or hiking in Nepal or something like that. They like planning for things and you’re a part of that constructed future they have in mind. I’m getting they love traveling around the world to foreign places and you are most definitely coming along, imagine dancing under the Eiffel Tower in Paris with scent of bread and pastries filling the air, laughter and twirling. It’s just romantic, they’re a big hopeless romantic. I’m getting you were hard to woo and that made it more the challenge, you challenged your fsp and didn’t make any of it easy but that’s why they love you so.
“My cold, poker faced baby. The true reward is seeing you smile and only I can do that.”
Favorite things about you
“I’m sorry to say but it’s your dark side.”
I was seeing red and black behind my sight and I was confused like what did this mean and boom, I’m seeing the devil card, 10 of swords and 7 of swords. It’s not that they love seeing you at your worst no, it’s just that they have a savior complex and seeing that you’ve gone through all this pain and hurt makes them love you even more ?:??? I’m confused, they said they know it’s confusing and it’s hard to explain it. They love how strong you are, how the world hasn’t killed your fire for living. Like they know how bad you’ve been treated, how you’ve been hurt almost beyond repair and here you are, still fighting, still strong. Still smiling, hoping, living. They have major respect for you and just want to take all the pain away, want to be your shield and protector from all the deceptive people in your life that only have you empty promises. The fact you still have so much love to give and kindness baffles them, you’ve changed their perspective in life have awakened something in them. It’s transformative, being with you has changed them for the better. Things they didn’t use to notice before, you’ve opened their eyes to it. You’re still in your power after everything you’ve been through and that can just bring them to their knees and want to shower you with love and provide you with all the things you could never have. They want to be your protector and provider.
Things they love to do with you
Traveling, eating, long car drives in foreign cities, photography. They like drinking with you, pop a bottle of champagne, have a glass of wine, party with you till dawn 😂😂 they love doing the unexpected with you. Randomly asking if you want to skydive or taking you to a place and announcing you’re gonna go deep sea diving. They love surprising you with their antics or taking you to a sushi restaurant. They love communicating with you and debating about a lot of things, keeps the relationship exciting and fresh if you guys talk about a lot of things. Reminisce about you guys childhood and reliving some moments like rewatching some old shows or something. They love to find ways to make you happy and not make you think about all the sad things you had to endure. They love when you two go out and you’re the couple everyone is looking at, like they just want to show you off and of course be the center of attention. They love when your childish funny side comes out, you’re so on edge and cold but then when you’re comfortable you just show this witty, fun side that’s just such a turn on hehehehehehe. They love going to amusement parks with you and haunted houses, loves when you grab onto them for support. So cute!!
Sugar daddy/mommy vibessss. Your fsp is not good at expressing their emotions, they have a resting bitch face and you don’t really know what they’re thinking. However, they spoil you rotten, gift giving is their number one go to. Need your nails and hair done? Got it. That new bag you’ve had your eyes on? Got it. Anything you want? Got it. They’re the kind of person to send you a gift and inside are just wads of cash. They love you baby, this is the least they can do. Another love language is praise, they like to litter you with compliments and love letters. Handwritten love letters for all the words they can’t say out loud, they really love you a lot. You’re the one they want to be with, like seriously it’s marriage or nothing with this person. Your fsp is a provider, you’re part of the grand scheme of things and to them that’s a part of their love language. They don’t usually give people the time of day but with you, they’re willing to give you everything that you need/want. Teasing. Love language is teasing the hell out of you and joking around, your person is quite the intellect and loves to play mind games with you (not the toxic one), their love language is also being super protective of you. Nobody can insult you and get off easy, they’ll pay the price of trying to get on the level of their lover. Helping you sleep and cope with possible depression is also part.
Favorite things about you
“They take my breath away.”
I was literally finding it hard to breathe as I was shuffling for this pile. Oml. You’re perfect. God I feel sick. Fsp is lovesick over you. I’m even finding it hard to find the words to say. I feel like I’ve shut down. God you really do something to your fsp.
“I love you and I don’t know how else to say it. How can I box down everything about you into words. It’s not enough to explain the way I feel about you, the way you make me feel. You’re perfect. Perfect enough for me.”
God pile 3 I’m sorry, I can’t find the words to explain this. The feelings are so big and deep I can’t even say anything. All I can say is that your fsp loves you a lot. You’ve healed them from past hurt, you’re the flame in their life that lit them up when they were in the dumps, you’re their sunshine, the one made for them, who’s never going to leave. The one who came just when they needed someone, you changed them and their life.
“You’re my home and future.”
Things they love to do with you
Going to popular events, charity events. Being the center of attention whenever you two go out 😂😂😂 loves spending money on you, buying stuff, shopping, really likes spending money on you. Seeing you happy makes them happy. Likes doing spiritual things with you like meditating, introspection and generally bettering yourselves together. Loves spending time with you alone, little footsies on the couch and jokes. Kisses and lovemaking. Mentally challenging tasks, healing from the past hurts together. Light hearted conversations. Transforming with you to the best versions of yourselves, doing creative things with you like drawing or writing or diy.
“I’m not really good with love.”
Your fsp love language is gift giving. They’re telling me they are not good with all the romance stuff. They did not have good previous relationships. It was full of fights and mental manipulation and pain, it was really depressing for your fsp it was so bad it almost ended their will to live. They’re so sorry that they can’t provide much, or be your knight in shining armor. They’re still dealing with the pain of the past and the hurt, also dealing with work life that’s so draining. It’s difficult for them to balance everything and they want to give you their best but their best right now is not enough. All they can offer is the stuff they can give you and their battered heart. Please don’t break it. They manifested you into their life and want to provide the best but mentally they are not in the place to do that. However, they’re committed to you and only you. They’re determined to make you happy and keep you by their side because they actually care about you a lot. (Fsp might be a workaholic)
Favorite things about you
You’re a survivor. You’re not bound by anything in this world. You’re not in a victim mindset even after everything you’ve been through. You’re maternal and value stability and a home. You call them out on their bull and you’ve literally ended their cycle of pain and misery. You’re their sunlight, sunshine, the love of their life and first drop of water after a drought. You’re everything that your fsp needs, a breath of fresh air. You bring joy into their life and you make them smile so wide, something they thought they’ll never do again. You make them happy to rise up in the morning and all their anxiety and depression is gone. You’re trustworthy and an honest person who always shines a light on anyones bs including their own. You’re an independent fast moving person who dreams and makes moves to their goals. You’re the embodiment of who they want to be, meant to be. You two mirror each other. You were their manifestation, dream come true. You’re spiritually inclined just like your fsp.
Things they love to do with you
I heard pray. Your fsp might be religious sksksks. Romance each other, plan for the future. They definitely see having kids with you. Save money and strive to accomplish your dreams. Work together and help each other out. Spend quality time together, meditate and do spiritual stuff together. Talk about the past and work on healing your wounds together. Travel around and help each other to be better people.
