been dating the same cis guy since before i accepted that i was trans, and hes also straight so i was nervous to tell him. the truth is even though ive been out online ive been hiding the truth from him, which isnt fair to either of us. anyway the other day i broke down crying on the phone and told him i cant be his quirky nb gf anymore, im a guy and ive got to do something about it or i will explode. I told him i didnt tell him because i was scared he wouldnt still love me. things got wuiet then he said this,
"well, ill always love you no matter what. But even if i didnt, and you had to chose between being loved by me and loving yourself the answer is clear. Your going to have to do what you need to do to love yourself. My comfort comes second, if your a dude your a dude and theres nothing you can do about it. You cant spend your whole life running from who you are, and id rather get to know the real you then keep being attracted to who you feel you have to pretend to be"
he then asked if i was going to get into call of duty now
