#fucking...

[vespaonna]

a year-end bits and bobs roundup

[gremlin-boah]

I saw the “I found a child” can we see Feral Wild 14 year old Arthur being grabbed by Dutch like a stray feral bear cub out of a dumpster.

It’s the “husband didn’t want the dog” and now it’s attached and it’s mine now.

Pan to Hosea with wittle feral Arthur sticking next to him as he reads. “It’s just for tonight.” He says. (He was lying)

Pan to weather BIGGER slumped against Hosea as they’re sitting somewhere by the fire. “Awe. My sweet big bear.” *head pat*

T.T I love Papa hosea!!! He loves his boys.

A LITERAL WEEK LATER...

Awwweee Hosea will always be a father.

This is my most longest drawing yet.

And I love it sm.

[chiarrara]

also i went to the dentist today so have my fuckass jjk dentist au lol

I probably will not write this but you never know, i think it's funny

[lizal1cious]

SO APPARENTLY IT WAS JUST A PR STUNT? YOU MADE ME BALL MY EYES OUT FOR... PR?!

Trust Be:lift to make money out of other people's hardships....

[chainsawworld]

Ok. Was distressed earlier for personal reasons, sufficiently distracted myself to not be a problem, got in bed, nothing to distract, thinking about it. it's been an hour and a half and I am nowhere even close to falling asleep.

[time-jester]

Cheesy may be cheesy with his jokes, but I think it'd be funny if he was also very cheesey in a relationship.

Like, "Oh my love~ I planned out this romantic picnic at night. It's just you and me, the night sky shall be our light, but they'll never shine as bright as you~" or "Hey babe, I'm having such a Gouda time with you! I'm so glad to brie wirh you! I promise you won't be provolone ever again~"

Like, say what you want about bro's jokes. If he gon' love ya', he'll love ya' so fucking much.

[poetry-protest-pornography]

Istg if one more person comments "vanilla extract" or "[sexual activity]" or "a million dollars" on that poll, I'm going to lose it.

Self compassion is hard work. Not treating yourself like shit is hard work. Allowing yourself space for a deep breath, or to acknowledge what you need in the moment-- and then letting yourself take that thing or giving it to yourself to the best of your ability-- is fucking hard.

Like, I know we all deflect with dark humor and sarcasm and memes, but if all you do is joke about your mental health, and minimize what you need, all you do is make being mean to yourself and not taking care of your basic needs into a habit. All you do is learn to be an asshole to yourself, and ignore your needs.

I try really hard to put positive things out here, because I struggle with these things, and I know I'm not the only one who needs a reminder to be nice to myself, or to take a breath, or that I'm not a bad person because I made a mistake or had some Bad Thoughts™️.

But it does not feel good when it gets made into a joke.

(I am so happy that people are getting out of it what I intended, this is not a rant for you. It's not really a rant at anyone, I just wish some of y'all knew how to accept kindness without being pithy about it)