#futch pride

[xxcalicofemmexx]

futch wallpapers!

Futch: A gender expression that is a mix of femme and butch aesthetics. Due to the lack of history, and the focus on aesthetics, it's often debated if it's a "real" term. But it's real enough to be helpful to those who identify with it, and that's what matters. Most commonly used by WLW, but open for anyone to use

[rancid-men-stimboards]

Futch pride flag (2017) stimboard

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[celestialautifutch]

Like even people who are trying to be supportive will treat butch and femme like a binary dichotomy, anyone who doesn't identify exclusively as just one of those as an "other," and act like anyone who identifies as futch or stem (which like, white people keep stem identities out of your fucking mouth) is just doing so because they feel pressured to fit into this binary, and so choose terms to describe it that are "fake" when we should just consider ourselves unaligned.

People are so, so complex and your attempts to shove us into boxes will never work. Just because you don't understand how someone can feel a genuine connection to both butch and femme identities doesn't mean it isn't possible, and it's not necessary for you to treat people poorly over it, especially when you're trying to be supportive and inclusive.

[celestialautifutch]

Need more futch folks in my life, and I know there are a lot of us who don't talk about it cuz of the way the lesbian community (most often the white, cis lesbian community) treats us. But I see y'all, and I need your energy in my life. So if you see me out in the wild (the tumblr tags) come say hi! Happy Pride, futches!

[celestialautifutch]

I missed Futch Friday but every day is Futch day in my world so happy FUCKIN FUTCH SATURDAY!!!

[celestialautifutch]

Being and identifying as futch is actually so healing. I wish people saw that. I wish people were willing to see that.

[celestialautifutch]

Sometimes I'm butch in a butch way or femme in a femme way but also sometimes I'm butch in a femme way or femme in a butch way or both at once or neither and yeah that makes no sense to most some of you but I'm actually beyond the point of caring.

[futchbeauty]

I've never been so excited to have 3 whole followers 🥲

Not even being sarcastic, either. Futch is such a controversial identity in the queer community (well, predominantly the white queer community, as I've noticed people of color have significantly less concerns about futch and stem identities) so every single person who chooses to interact in a positive or curious way brings me joy.

Thank you for being here 🥰