i am confuse
i want to just be able to identify as “female,” like any sexually reproducing animal species is male, female, or hermaphroditic, with individuals varying on a spectrum in-between. that’s how i feel. like, “yup that’s my biology.”
even “agender” feels like too much of a gender to me. i can’t figure out why since it’s just a word that means “no gender” but it seems to come with its own identity? if you put a word to a nothing does it automatically become a something?
i seem to just present as default “woman but doesn’t give a shit about appearance” because i don’t want to bother about putting the time to design a presentation for what a role-less female would look like or some such. that’s what i mean by agender being too much of an identity -- or maybe i just mean too much work.
