#genderqueer things

[strangelittlestories]

Pitch: the gender neutral version of a stag/hen do should be the 'fox do'.

Cons: people will ask you "What's a fox do?"

Pros: you can answer "Mischief, mainly."

[cozymushroom13]

Tonight two people asked me if I’m a man or a women, I am glad I apparently still look androgynous enough to confuse people and not as much like a man as I thought.

[gayedmundodiaz]

Btw I changed my name. My name is now Lain ✨☺️

[solarishashernoseinabook]

I'm actually perfectly gender conforming just not to any gender you know of

[3hobbitsinatrenchcoat]

Reblog If:

You are Genderqueer, Support Genderqueer People, or Are Merely Three Hobbits In A Trenchcoat Yearning For Second Breakfast

[hebby-arts]

it feels nice to be more like me ...

i have a better understanding of what I was trying to tell myself back when I designed/customized this particular Crux back in 2012. the idea of punk-- but the punk that’s constantly misunderstood by society. punk is love, and standing up to corruption.

mismatch has always been “genderless” but I realize it wasn’t me trying to be nonbinary or genderless or anything like that, but rather not wanting to fit into someone’s rigid description of me.

mismatch is he/they. mismatch is kind and loving and very passionate and has so much lust for life. he gets into a ton of trouble with his mouth--he stumbles through things, bumbling his way through friendships and gaffs. he wants so badly to have a lot of friends.

he has a hard time telling when he’s being taken advantage of, he trusts too quickly, and it’s difficult for him to maintain focus on just one thing. in 2012, I didn’t know that I had ADHD. I was diagnosed as a child, but I didn’t remember it. It wasn’t until 2018 that I talked to my mother, asking her “what is wrong with me?” and she said “nothing is wrong, you have adhd!” and I just sat there like

“wha”

and then my life made sense. and then this year, I was reading about the genderqueer identities, and I thought “wow.” cause my life made sense, but from a new perspective.

little truths sprinkled through my life that I was trying to tell myself but not having the words/understanding that I have now.

it’s easy for me to forget who I am a lot. sometimes I feel like I am a voice mail machine, and messages and information pass through me and sit inside me and I end up forgetting what was recorded there before. This time, I want to sit with myself a little longer, and hold onto what it means to be me.

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[gizzwhizz]

The anthology I'm in is having a launch party in November and I usually cave and wear a dress to things like that, but I'm strongly considering going for a more formal gender neutral look because I want to be comfortable and authentic at my first "official author" function. 💪

[irishsaints]

oh! a little thing that made my heart sing today

my therapist mentioned that she had started using they/them pronouns in writing up notes on me now

so that made me happy :) :) :)