#gendervague

[dragonpride17]

Could I request a flag for a term I call xague (rhymes with vague)? It’s basically xenogender and gendervague put together. It can be defined in two ways: 1) feeling the most at ease when being approximate to and/or mostly of xenogender/being xenous/being xenic etc. even if your only approximate because of neurodivergence. And 2) being a gender that is very (gender)vague and thus hard to define, pinpoint, and/or label due to being neurodivergent which can be distressing but feeling the most at ease and calm when using xenogenders for oneself, or at least feeling a bit at ease knowing that one is xenine/xenic in someway. It’s been awhile since I made this kind of request so if the definition feels off or seems off in anyway please let me know! Thank you!🖤

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xague - a combination between xenogender and gendervague; feeling at ease when being approximate to and/or mostly xenogender/xenic/etc., eveen if you're only approximate due to neurodivergence; a gender that is very (gender)vague and thus hard to define, pinpoint, and/or label due to being neurodivergent which can be distressing but feeling at ease/calm when using xenogenders for oneself or knowing that one is xenogender/xenic/etc. in some way

here u are! :3

[vaguely-problematic]

[fruitpridepixels]

Gender identities, once again! (I told you I had a lot of these. I'm not even done.) From top to bottom, today's friends are:

Enigender

Epicene

Faegender

Fluidflux

Gender Apathetic

Gender Neutral

Genderfae

Genderfaun

Gendervague

Graygender

Juxera

[queersekai]

🏳️‍⚧️ and niigo! (specifically including the tricologe set if you can!!)

btw, thank you for running this blog!! its a delight :3

Kanade is gendervague, Mafuyu is gendervoid, Ena is xenocis, and Mizuki is (transfem but that's given) girl+!

PSD by me!

[areyouthisidentity-polls]

Are you...

Gendervague / Vaguegender?

Yes, and I was previously familiar with this identity

Yes, and this is how I discovered this identity/the word for this identity

I am questioning this identity

No, but I am familiar with this identity

No, and this is the first I've heard of this identity

Voting ended onJan 9, 2024

Vaguegender, also known as gendervague, is a neurogender in which someone is mostly or approximately a certain gender. However, it is only approximate on account of difficulty defining one's gender, due to one’s neurodivergence. Vaguegender can be used on its own, or one can use terms like vagueboy or vaguegirl based on the gender(s) one is close to.

[genderqueerpositivity]

I love being gendered correctly. I love when people get my pronouns right without me even having to state them.

Being gendered as male is very affirming, but having people switch between pronouns or be obviously unsure which ones to use is even better. I've even been unexpectedly identified as trans and referred to with they pronouns twice in the past three days now, and both times absolutely made my day.

Sometimes I get frustrated that I haven't had the same miracle results from two years on testosterone that a lot of trans folks get, and that I don't pass for cis male 100% of the time. Other times, I'm very glad that my appearance is more obviously queer because that feels more real and true to my gender identity

[pride-flag-fag]

vaguefluidflux

vaguefluidflux: when one’s gender can not be defined with words due to their neurodivergent status, but it is fluid between being an approximation of/around multiple genders and the level of vagueness fluxuates.

term coined by: tumblr user arco-pluris on april 15 2018

flag designed by: the same user

see also:

gendervague, vagueboy, vaguegirl, vaguefluid, vagueflux

[ezgender]

[”Being autistic doesn’t cause my gender identity, but it is inextricably related to how I understand and experience gender.” - Lydia X. Z. Brown on being gendervague. ]