*continuation from last post*
But girls, wear whatever you want. Wear whatever makes you feel beautiful. Wear whatever builds up your self confidence and self esteem. Wear whatever makes you happy. Because you wear these things for the sake of feeling beautiful. āØ
If anyone calls you out and tells you that what youāre wearing is āattention seekingā, ignore them. You do you. They donāt know that it makes you feel beautiful. They donāt know that it builds up your confidence. They donāt know that it builds up your self esteem. They donāt know you. You donāt need them raining down on your parade because theyāre just assuming those things. Itās what THEY think. Donāt let their opinions define you or change you.
Encourage everyone around you to wear what they want! Not all actions are made to satisfy boys. It is not our problem if they think otherwise because we have no control over that. But donāt let those unaddressed issues victimise you or objectify you and stop you from wearing what makes you feel beautiful. Because not all men are wild animals. They can have self control. You donāt need their confirmation to assure you that you are beautiful. Wear whatever for your own good love. š But is worse comes to worse, just remember...
NO! means NO!
