gRooVES 'n JaMs S. O. T. Y. 2024
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"Wristwatch" by MJ Lenderman
MG:
There's a pretty famous 2015 study that confirms a positive correlation between a personal preference for bitter flavors and "everyday sadism." Don't feel too called out if you take your coffee black or your chocolate dark, there's a lot of space in the word "preference" and, kinda, no offense, all social studies are pseduoscience. But what, I wonder, about bitterness? "Wristwatch" is far and away the bitterest song of the year -- just the way MJ Lenderman sings "Well," leaves that tang in my mouth. In terms of our current moment in pop psych, bitterness is very much out. You don't want to relate to people that way! It makes you less attractive and it makes the other person too powerful! But bitterness is just a feeling we all have, it's spontaneous, it simply happens. Better to capture it with both mystery and precision, as Lenderman does here, than to make it like a dragon and pretend it doesn't exist. Indeed, our multifaceted devices are a poor substitute for human connection, but that doesn't mean human connection isn't perilous. The layers of bitterness fold on themselves in the style of something sweet -- the flaky croissant. Ultimately, by way of his unconditional expression, Lenderman captures a fuller spectrum of flavor and, I'll probably be proven wrong about this with enough time, that's what most people truly prefer.
DV:
As someone without an iphone and also possibly someone a little too old, I have completely missed out on the "Find My Friends" aspect of our ever-expanding surveillance state - no one is asking to add me and I'm not asking to add anyone. And to be clear I prefer it that way. But I think of my kids, growing increasingly close to the time when they'll have their first cell phones, and I wonder if I'll be able to resist then. Wouldn't we both feel just a little more secure if we knew where we all were at all times? What if there's an emergency? What if we're not checking our notifications? Is there something we're trying to hide? The arguments pile up, terribly. And here's MJ Lenderman to tell me that even with whatever semi-fucked relationship he's describing here, whoever is telling him he's wasting his life, he still knows where they are at all times - knows enough to know when they're alone. What weird fucking information to have about someone! Something that for - rounding up - one hundred per cent of human history would make you a threat is now something that's the setup, the scene setting in the first verse, for one of the year's best guitar pop songs. This is where normal is in 2024, and I can't decide if it's better or worse that the song encompassing this moment is catchy enough that I didn't even notice it at first.
















