Training my daughter is a pleasure because it genuinely feels like play to both of us. There is no pressure or need for pretense on either side. No one knows me like her, and I teach her as if I am teaching myself. The belittling perfectionist that fought hard to defeat me over the years is no where to be found when Grace and I train. We insist it be a joy and when it stops feeling as such, we bow out and go bake some cup cakes. #internaljiujitsu ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #gracejiujitsu #jiujitsu #judo #bjj #blackbelt #jiujitsugirl #judogirl #mind #body #fitness #martialarts #wellness #coach #trainer #kidsmartialarts #jiujitsuvideos (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/Br25ta6gWWy/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=2sjjbg3pm0mi