@grandmafftarkin replied to your post “Dying :) Yesterday I accepted a friendrequest on fb from an old...”
Hey, I know it's hard to tell people to piss off because it feels like you're being mean to them. But he sounds like a creep and you shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable or stressed because a dude can't take a hint to lay off. It's not mean or rude to assert your boundaries, but it's rude as hell to stroll all over them like he did when you were trying to change the subject to get him to stop commenting on your appearance
it's your fb you have the authority to tell him to cool it or block him. Don't let him become a stressful presence looming in your message inbox until he gives up, it's not worth the anxiety
I’m about to cry this is such a sweet answer.
Like, a part of me is like “yeh, block his ass”, but another part feel like I should at least tell him to back off first to see if he listens...but I don’t know how. I keep questioning if I wasn’t clear enough that I wanted to switch subjects or that he could notice how fckn uncomfortable I got like...I just keep questioning myself.