Tbh i find the Villies a hard watch since their dynamic lowkey triggers me because the control and isolation reminds me of a friend and her bf 😭
No bc why are they treating her like that? Telling her that she's not good enough to be a villain (e.g. her being friendly with others) while also telling her that she's too evil (e.g. being immediately accused of stealing etho's horse and not able to let her explain) making her thread between the lines of "not evil" and "too evil"
Then there's the isolation part when they intentionally Pearl out and go on to make alliances and deals with others without even asking her opinion then become extremely possessive when others wanted to interact with her. They also love to bring up their grudge in her opinions about the lighthouse as a way to constantly differentiate her from them and then outright saying that they don't listen to her at all
Not only are they isolating Pearl from the group, but they're also isolating her from the rest of the server because of their self-induced paranoia. Like if you want to keep your girl you better start treating her right
They are definitely projecting their feelings onto Pearl and I can see them leaving her the moment she makes a mistake without even hearing her side of it. The only time they seem to care about her was when she became the boogeyman since this is finally the time they can live their bloodthirsty intents through her. After the boogey kill they just went back forgetting her existence at all
I really hope she confronts them about this or just leave them for another alliance because my girl deserves better
TLDR; Grigem acting like a shitty partner towards Pearl by:
a) constantly changing the criteria of being a villy so that she won't fit in
b) not caring about her opinions at all
c) controlling her interactions with others
d) projecting their paranoia and bloodthirstiness onto her