#grimm talks

[deathless-dreams]

Some Things I Wish More People Understood About OCD

It is a condition of anxiety, not desire

Intrusive thoughts can be anything, yes even that thing that scares or grosses you out or is morally bad. They're not secret wants. They're usually distressing but they're not always, and people who are being treated for it might not find them distressing - just because someone isn't distressed, doesn't mean the thought is wanted or aligns with their beliefs/wants

Obsessions can be anything, including complete nonsense sometimes

Compulsions don't necessarily have to be related to the obsession that causes them, but they often are

Compulsions can also be "avoiding doing a thing", not just "doing a thing", at times

Compulsions can be internal-only, in which the compulsion is specific thoughts

Not doing a compulsion feels anywhere between "I'm going to die" and "itch I can't scratch but feel desperate to"

We realize the obsession and compulsions are not logical sometimes, but often this does not help. Sometimes they feel logical in the moment

"Doing a different compulsion" is not the solution to compulsions, unless the compulsion you're already doing is in some way causing harm or further distress

[the-grimm-writer]

Have you considered older yanderes? like in their 30's or 40's that could totally align with sugarmom/dad vibes (and may or may not help with mommy/daddy issues)

Yes!!!!!!

I love older yans in the sense that they're not only able to take advantage of the fact that they're older and more mature, but they also know what they're doing is wrong, but they just don't gaf.

Especially when if we're going the sugarmom/daddy route. They know exactly what to say and do to make you dependent on them without you even realizing what they're doing before it's too late.

And with all the praise, the gifts and their possessive behavior disguised as them just being protective, I feel that would definitely help sooth the parental issues 😭

[skullswim]

Oooooo its bed time oooooooooooooo go sleepy time now ooooOooOoOOOOoooo this means ur pokemon also OooOoOoOoOOoOoOOOOOooo

[nevermorenight]

Sorry I haven't posted anything, I am going through one of my depressive episodes and haven't really been able to get out of bed.

I am hoping I will eventually feel better, I am just... mourning over something.

My cat is doing better at least, he still need special food for like three months, but at least I manage to get him his medicine for now.

[thegrimmgrimm]

This is why the other one gets to be favourite editor 🤦🤦🤦

[grimmoooz]

Can we talk about how Ronaldo straight up pulled out a fucking sword to fight the diamonds like he had no training. he was balls to the walls man he was fucking ready to cut some rock space ladies. like what the fuck my dude

[lionblazingit]

I’m making a cuphead character based off of a 1930s radio, and I love him.

[nerdgiffing]

Babylon 5

Okay, so, I know that I post a LOT of Star Wars gifs. It’s cool, I am in no way ashamed, but recently I’ve been watching Babylon 5, and if you love science fiction (and can get past mid 90′s 3D graphics for battle scenes) I HIGHLY recommend this series. 

Let me explain.  Do you want a series where characters of all types are given interesting story arcs? 

Do you want a science fiction setting that has psionics, space ship battles both small and large, and interesting alien cultures? Do you want a story that builds on itself, one episode after another with multiple story arcs that have a lasting effect on the setting at large?

What a bout a setting where not every alien panders to the idea of human beauty? Where aliens have their own biology that isn’t completely ignored? Where the female characters don’t all just have stories that revolve around male characters?

Now, for the next few weeks...you are going to get to know this show through gifs. I am both sorry and not all at the same time.