Watching Louis Theroux's new documentary and I was expecting to be cringing and laughing at these guys (and tbf, I am a bit) but God it's actually just really fucking sad how these dudes live, especially the couple of the fans of these influencers he spoke to (the guy who said he doesnt believe in depression and that his brother killed himself but it's important to "see the positive in it" and that working out etc. would fix it was genuinely tragic). The paranoia and defensiveness and hollow posturing are depressing to watch. I wish he had followed up more with the women who are in these guys' lives, though I suspect they wouldn't have been "allowed" to talk to him more than the few snippets he managed to get with them tbh. I also wish we heard more from people who left the manosphere, etc. to provide more of a counternarrative. I worry a little bit that by showing these guys and letting them frame the narrative themselves so much, while making them look pathetic and sad to outsiders, may just boost their profile to their fanbases. Like all the interstitials of them posing next to fancy cars and flashing their watches and shit looks stupid as hell to me, and I feel like the intent is to showcase how shallow and manufactured that image is, but to the people who want that stuff and think it's cool surely it's just advertising?














