9 for wysteria, and 11 for satine!
Relationships & Courting | Accepting
9. ♥ Are they patient with their partners?
Patience is of high value with Wysteria, considering her own past comes back ot her in bits and pieces and she struggles with emotions it can be hard for her to honestly express herself at any given time. Whether it’s a flaw, weakness or hesitance in a partner Wysteria is beyond patient with them. She’s used to feeling the constant pressure of maintaining the Shepherds safety, so she knows how heavy the expectations of others can be she has no desire to put unnecessary weight on a partner. The more she is told and can come to understand something her partner needs or can’t do the more willing she is to accept it and work with them through it or around it based on what’s called for.
Of course she hopes for this same kind of patience in return but, being the work horse she is if a partner isn’t careful she’ll let them trample right past returning the favor feeling it’s her responsibility to deal with her own short comings, not theirs.
11. ♥ Do they make an effort to find someone with similar views, be they political or moral?
Sort of but, at the same time not really. Satine is a firm believer that you certainly do not have to agree with your partner on all or even most aspects in life there are only a few key principles that matter to her the rest exists outside the relationship in her mind. Holding respect for all people regardless of gender, status, etc. based purely on their personal merit is a big one for her. People must EARN respect and nothing outside of deeds and actions should determine how people are treated, partners with biases against or for certain sexes, races etc. are a big no go with her.
Politics is NOT Satine’s favorite, as long as the politics don’t get in the way of her basic beliefs she really couldn’t care less. As long as a partner doesn't clash with one of her core beliefs and she doesn’t clash with one of theirs she wouldn’t go out of her way to find someone who believes things the EXACT same way she does down to the letter. That’s just exhausting and likely in hr mind a fruitless endeavor to begin with.