To the scared and dysphoric anon:
1) I know how you feel. Take a breath, you're not alone
2) Some of the best ways to get away from Terf rhetoric (which. Even if you're not trans,you should reaalllly get away from it, it's incredibly harmful):
-unfollow any accounts ofc, but also BLOCK terfs when you come across them, and filter the tags. Terfs have a habit of deliberately targeting people in messages and reblogs, and they know how to twist your words to make it sound like they're in the right - I've been messaged countless times by terfs claiming all sorts of things about me as a trans person. They also often specifically target dysphoric and questioning people like yourself. Block them.
-Surround yourself with similar people. Find forums for genderquestioning people, Including humour/meme forums!! Meme and joke forums can be really helpful because they remove a lot of the fear of stigma from the questioning experience. They can provide a comfortable place where everyone will be supportive regardless of what you discover about yourself - if you question and end up cis, they will still be supportive. These two forums on Reddit are good places to start:
https://www.reddit.com/r/lgbt/
https://www.reddit.com/r/questioning/
On Tumblr I'd recommend following:
@lgballt (this is a humour blog based on a subreddit, but the subreddit can be pretty overwhelming to someone who is new to this, so the lgballt Tumblr account is a better starting point imo)
@trans-positivity is a safe place that will help you destigmatize transness in your own head, whilst providing you the space you need to question and figure things out on your own.
@questioningpositivity is also a good one specifically for questioning people!
(I was starting to get more busy around the time I answered that anon and did answer because I found it incredibly important. But in case if anon comes back here).
