Parents and families are always going to be third banana to a political system that is fundamentally anti-aristocratic, which stands for rule by abstractly determined merit rather than rule by superior families over subordinate families. If the entire point of the state is to supplant traditional sources of authority, to remove legitimacy from the distributed authority of patriarchal rule, it’s misguided to expect the state to support your patriarchal authority. The police officer is supposed to supplant Dad, just as Prime Minister displaces King (minister of ministers being more important than first among fathers). The legal theorist is supposed to supplant the backwards mystic traditions that informed old laws.
Henry Dampier, “About the Decay of Bourgeois Values”











