#hes something else

[rixvio]

[jemmo]

I'm the anon that sent the ask about pat's anger, and wow wow wow I wasn't expecting such a detailed answer but it was sooo appreciated, you really put my thoughts into coherent words lol

like of course he didn't really have to face the consequences of his actions, he's impulsive, he even said so himself and of course he would resort to violence cause that's what his father taught him and would want him to do

and that's why I'm even more impressed by how good he is at understanding pran and communicating and basically being empathetic, like where does he get it from if his environment didn't encourage this kind of behaviour at all??

and also now I'm so curious to see how he'll react when he finds out what the family feud is about and eventually confronts his father, I mean he'll definitely be angry with him but I can also see him be the mediator between the two families

thank you so much dear anon for giving me the chance to rant!! its not like my thoughts were that coherent either, i just find digging into these elements of the characters so fascinating i could do it all day.

and you raise v v good points anon. i honestly think its so admirable and inspiring and beautiful that pat managed to grow into such an empathetic and understanding person. i do think part of it comes naturally, both for pat and for pran. again, this is something me and @thecookiemonster77 talk about a lot, about how pat and pran managed to have their eyes and minds open enough to see that there was no real bad feelings between them, no hostility. thats just a narrative their parents pushed onto them, but they were able to see past it and say 'hey, what has this guy actually done to me thats so bad??'. and not to go back to a certain persons favourite point, but the fact they CHOSE to see past that façade, CHOSE to meet each other halfway with understanding is again so admirable.

but also, after having that kind of revelation, that the other really isn't that bad at all, i think there's an element of pat and pran seeing their parents as a bad role model, as in 'here's what we don't want to do, here's what we don't want to become' bc they don't want to perpetuate that feud through their generation. again, we go back to pat having this simple world view, which is at odds with his dad who puts all these invisible, societal rules in place about manliness that pat just doesn't see. and maybe that's a generational difference; pat has not been exposed to those expectations as his father was and therefore doesn't feel the need to live up to them. and maybe that encourages him to question what his dad says, and that leads him to really think about and consider the people around him and his ability to empathise grows from there. i definitely think both of them are very aware now of the roles imposed onto them and the fact they're bullshit. they may be unconsciously influenced in other ways, but they both know how to put the mask on, and that the mask isn't right. and i feel like thats gotta lead to some element of questioning, like 'ok i know this isnt what we should be like, so how should we be?'. and that provides so much room for growth and empathy and development, when you are almost actively searching for the person you want to be. and that might not be a conscious effort by pat, but i just get the feeling he's been on a journey like that.

as for the reason for the family feud, god im so ready to find out what it is. seriously, i need ep 10 to drop rn and spill all the goss. as for what it is, idk. but for pat, i could see it going a couple of ways. bc if the reason is stupid i think he will fully call ppl out. he will go to his father and be like you've hung onto this for this long over something this dumb and petty?? thats not a good enough reason to keep me away from someone i care about dearly, not by a long shot. and if it is something more, something where he can understand why there might be tension and hostility, i could still see him being the person trying to change ppls ways, especially his father. try to encourage empathy and understanding, initiate discussion and communication so they can get somewhere, move on and aren't stuck in such a hateful mindset. bc thats who he is, and i'd really love for his father, who said he was disappointed in him over something so stupid, to finally open his eyes and see what an incredible and inspiring man his son has turned into, and be proud of him for that.

dont mind me crying over pat finally getting the praise and recognition he deserves bc in a work filled with so much hate and negativity, it really is hard for him to be so un-phased by it, be such a good and positive force. god i just love the bones of him.

anyway sweet anon thanks for facilitating yet another long-winded, emotionally charged rant, and apologises for making you read all my messy thoughts again. i just cant stop at this point :))

[notafanjustpassionate]

Mase and his anger 🤭😂😂

[hotvampireadjacent]

it’s so funny seeing people have to push their cats away when they’re eating. Dia refuses to eat people food, unless it’s sea food he likes to lick tuna.

i heated up some breadsticks and he just sniffed them and left them alone. Oh no, he’s too good for anything that isn’t kitty kibble i guess. not complaining it’s just so funny to me.

[utterlyinevitable]

all my mc heard was ‘i let myself fall for you’

[ohtallest]

ncvabcrn said: height is a state of mind

     “ UH .   no .   i’m preeettty sure height is physical .   what ?   you sayin’ im tall ‘cause i think tall ?   that’s HILARIOUS ! “

[olympusatnoon]

We are invested!! How did u two meet

Awh, well that's very charming. I met him on a bridge while I went for my daily walk during the isolation. Somehow struck up a conversation and here we are. Who knew natural meetings could happen :))

[ickyrainbows3245]

Me: idk if I'm gonna take commerce seriously. Just an elective from the poor variety for college

The professor, the most chaotic motherfucker I've ever seen: I'm going to show you a clip from the Onion that will give an example of how what the customer values drives business. This is a satirical take.