This ask has been sitting in my inbox a while and I don't know what it's from but I'll just do it for now.
(Okay so I just deleted a huge paragraph I'd typed out as I realize there was literally no point)
Tumblr does not exist solely for you (anyone) to promote yourself in unhealthy, indecent, obnoxious ways to Taylor Swift. There's a huge world out there, and on here.
Furthermore, Taylor does not exist to be your toy. She has a life, one in that huge world as well. She owes none of us anything, yet she has been so incredibly giving, because she's a good person. We should all endeavor to, at the very least, never make her regret putting herself out there to interact with her fans. We need to do better. But honestly, either way next era will probably be very different, for a lot of reasons, some of which do boil down to the sad trope of a couple individuals ruining the experience for everyone.
Take what you will from that.