MB I feel like you will provide the precise energy I need when answering this:
How do I move on when I get the overwhelming urge to send a rude anon message? I have never wanted or even thought about such a thing before, but I just want to slap the op of a post I saw.
Without knowing what they wrote, I'd say- assume they're exactly as cruel and stupid as their post and that it's not worth your time or attention. I LOVE ignoring people, especially when they're trying to get a rise out of me. Did you want attention? Scream at a wall you pathetic loser. No one thinks about you. No one cares about your opinion. Keep screaming into the void, no one is ever going to validate your existence and certainly not you, OP.
Take a breath. Type it out but don't send it if you have to. I have 80 posts in my drafts and half are things I'll never ever say outloud but needed to be typed. Ultimately I think there are people who should have deleted a post and chose not to, and people who chose never to put their ugliness into the world, and it's always far better to be the latter than the former