Norms decided by Society for girls/womens-
1 - Stay polite ( I am sorry, I am totally unaware of what kind of politness a girl/women should carry to be loved and cared , it must be the reason that I couldn't find someone who could stick longer with me.)
2 - Don't show unnecessary anger ( he is man only he can have hormone issues. U know testosterone so he is allowed. Anger doesn't suits a woman. You hippocrates this isn't a clothing to suit it's an emotion that could be expressed by any gender any means any....when ? Literally when society will stop putting emotion tags on gender.)
3 - Behave decently ( like seriously if he is talking loud that's fine but we are, that means we have no decency)
4 - Talk sweetly ( why the f**k should we be sweet talker and he is allowed to be abusive. )
5 - Understand everyone ( ohk I am accepting we should understand everyone but if not understood by anyone then? ... It's ohk just ignore and supress your emotion, with time things will be fine.
Nooo, things won't be fine , say it loud you will adapt to this dominace of him with time.)
6 - Do forgive him, it's not his mistake this do Often happens by men. ( and what if it's happening by a woman.. She is hoe , don't have any shame, her parents haven't taught her anything)
7 - Do not talk much and do not laugh too much. ( like seriously he is allowed to laugh hard as his ass and we have to think twice-thrice before laughing in public just bcz they could judge us for that)
8 - Donot use offensive language ( he is using bcz he is man and it doesn't sound off limit when he utters those bc, mc, f**k etc from his mouth.. Well preached guys 🙌)
9 - Stay beautiful ( this would make him stay yours ..
Bloody shit marry a doll she would stay beautiful forever but her beauty too won't be able to hold you long because problem is in your greedy eyeballs. Those greeds needs to be treated time to time not our beauty)
10 - Don't spread your wings too much this would hurt his ego
( and what about our ego or emotions or attitude our respect our dignity that we are keeping on the edge of knife for him/ them)
11 - Learn to have patience
( A girl who knows how to have patience is loved and adored.
like my excitement could rot his excellence, look at you guys what your are expecting from us not him).
12 - learn to cook ,clean and be responsible.
(Not because you will need it to take care of yourself but because u will need it to take care of him, his family and his house. As U know..all man desires a woman who knows to cook and clean. And thank goodness at least I am not someone's desire.)
13 - He is allowed to drink /smoke /party, even allowed to have affair because he is man.
( if a woman drinks, smokes she isn't a women that deserves to be respected because she is trying to be a man and forgetting what looks good on woman. Being born as woman is that a mistake?)
.....................MANY MORE ( there are alot more to be still counted but this won't make any difference even if we are counting ,so ending my list here) ..................
..... F**k these norms, these limits, these demarcations set by them for us .
Why it has to be us not him/them. Why we have to let go and all he have to do is enjoy choose and desire shamelessly and still have the option to respected , obviously because he is man.
Why the f**k we have to quit ourselves to save his dreams ,his desires at the end. Why do only we have to struggle through these shits decided by the people, obviously because we are women.
Why she has to go through these norms to be his love, his women, his wife, his partner. Whyyy. Yyy.. ❓ the f**k a girl/women can't do all that she wants, all she dreams obviously beacuse she was born as girl.
Are we the fucking puppets just born to feed and be a caretaker of them. ( why can't we expect the same still be respected, why can't we be like him still except to be loved)
This shit makes me belives how women's are being tortured and tormented by society just because they were born as girls and are expected to become mature woman ( who can be a good feeder and care taker).
Not to hurt someone's beliefs and feelings, these are the feelings of some us who go through this because we aren't the perfect one's like we should be according to society. 🙏