#hobby problem

[mijoux]

Damn, life keeps beating me up recently. The current mood really is that one sad looking image of the girl laying next to a pool

[maidenplay]

A piece of mind about my another hobby

My other hobby has many scandals and problems, and also sex predator. I don't know how many people I heard that got raped or sexual harassment from others in the same community. It's somewhat became an "usual" thing. The good person you trust might turn bad years later. Trust is shattered, in short everything is a drama. Recently, there's a scandal about international public figure (ok let's be frank international cosplayer). As one of people who knew the truth, when the news come out of surface I was like "Finally they show it". It was way too much, and one scandal leak to another. All of us who knew the scandal and his bad behaviour choosed to stay silent at first, but enough is enough. Personally I have no grudge against him since from the first glance I knew he is dangerous and choose to keep distance. But knowing his behaviour and how rude he is even to my friends and others just crossed the limit. I bet if we have a forum about him it would be like an assemble of famous cosplayer all around my region, at least. Our world isn't that big after all, we will keep bumping each other either in convention or any occassion. I also have my own "drama" with a member of famous group. And gosh how tiring it was. One of them was playing a "tag" and act like he was my boyfriend, while in fact I have a boyfriend already. It also happened to my ex-partner. In short the infamous group (or maybe just the two jerk boys) was using us for their fame since they would get it from us. I didn't realize it before my boyfriend warned me. In the last event we attend together as artist I finally put the line that I don't want to have anything to do more than professional relation with them. Enough is enough. It wasn't that bad but it caused much uproar, especially to my partner since she got the bigger problem than mine. Tch such trick to get fame Recently we found another sex predator around my community. It's totally makes me feed up, all these sickening people. I feel complicated, to know some of them are around me yet I'm lucky enough to not get in touch with them due to my "hard-to-approach" image. This hobby is getting famous, it's envitable that there's always a bad side of everything. There are so many amazing people I have worked with and know, they inspire me to do my best and keep going, expressing my ideas in craft and photos. But the bad people are just so dangerous, takes one wrong step and you'll be doomed. That's why we need to choose our friends carefully. The influence of people is real in this world. It shows us how good and positive people could influence you to do your best while the bad people would do nothing but bring you down