Headcanons for Walder Frey's wives
Perra Royce
Born in 200, she is the only wife to be older than Walder Frey
She was very angry at her marriage to him, (which took place in 226) as she deemed the new money Freys as far beneath the old house of Royce. She was very vocal about this, and her dislike of the muddy Riverlands. This is why it took them several years to have children, they’re first child, Stevron, not being born until 233.
Her favorite child was her third son Aenys. She thought her older sons too weak, and too much like their father
She died in 244, one year after the birth of her daughter Perriane. Supposedly of a pox, though it has been rumored that she was poisoned by her disgruntled husband.
Cyrenna Swann
Born in 230, she married Walder in 247. She was the older sister of Corenna Swann (233), who married Walder's son and heir Stevron.
She was very strong willed, as expected of a Stormlander, and though her husband was not too fond of her, the Riverlanders liked her quite a bit, and she remains one of the more popular of Walder's wives
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Her sons were born in quick succession, Jared was born less than a year after the wedding, and Luceon less than a year after him, in 249. The birth was difficult, and during it, Cyrenna caught an infection. She died one month later, in 249, aged 19
Amarei Crakehall
Born in 229, she married walder in 250.
Had a bit of a flirty personality, but she did not cheat on Walder, as he insinuates. She was one of his least favorite wives, mostly because of her outgoing personality.
She was very devoted to her child, and did not have a favorite.
She confronted Walder several times, she earned her admonishment and even physical attacks, but she continued to hold her head high.
She died in 264, after delivering her final child, Raymond
Alyssa Blackwood
Born in 247, she married Walder in 265
Although she did not like her husband, she understood him better than the previous wives, and so was able to get along with him much better. She is one of the wives he liked more.
She was a strict mother with her children, in order to prepare them for the cutthroat nature of the Frey family, and world at large. Lothar is the way he is because of her.
She died mysteriously in 272, at her family's home.
Sarya Whent
Born in 255, she married walder in 273.
Very political match. She was the younger sister of Minisa Whent, who was married to Lord Paramount Hoster Tully.
A nervous woman, growing up at Harrenhall made her odd.
She struggled with fertility, like her sister, and she died 275, after a fall off the twins at midnight. Some believe it was a suicide, which it may well have been, while others think it was murder.
Bethany Rosby
Born in 253, she married Walder at her family’s home in 278, New Years day.
Timid and often sickly, she worried over her children constantly. She was rather pious, and had actually wished to become a silent sister.
She died in 283, giving birth to Roslin.
Annara Farring
Born in 265, she married Walder in 284.
For her beauty, personality, and willingness to placate him, She was Walder's favorite wife, and he sired the least amount of bastards during their marriage. Ironically, she was the only wife who did not have children with just him. The elder children were all his, but Shirei was the daughter of Symond Frey, who blackmailed her into sex over the story that she had slept with Black Walder.
She died giving birth to Shirei in 297, one year before the start of the story.
Joyeuse Erenford
Born in 282, she married Walder 298.
Cleverest of all his wives, and quickly becoming the favorite. She plays the part of a pious and wispy girl, there is a hidden cleverness to her, and she intends to see to it that her blood ends up in charge of the twins, somehow or another. She is hoping for a girl, to marry to the eventual lord of the crossing.
She’ll survive the main series.
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