Isn't discussing the J's anatomy so much more fun then getting in on all of the hate? I don't think people understand that the guys would never approve of the wives being hated on regardless of the validity of the marriages. They were raised with respect. Why can't we all have fun and get along. People take this waaaay too seriously.
Hello, sweetheart!
Ooh, you threw me a hot potato! Discussing anatomy and fawning over their epic romance definitely is fun, but that’s not the only way to be a J2 believer. I think we need all kinds of people among us - truthtellers, gifmakers, analyzers, wife lovers and haters… I believe we can only form a realistic picture if we put our heads together and discuss our views.
You and I are both quite fluffy and prefer to stay out of the wank, but I don’t think either of us have the authority to police what the others are saying. I read all sorts of blogs because I don’t mind learning about different views on the J’s situation - we are all prisoners of our own minds, but others can help set us free with their different perspective and new ideas. If I stick with only those who think like me, I’m handicapping myself much like the hets.
I don’t think it’s wise to dismiss someone outright for being “wanky.” They can still have good thoughts. It’s really up to each individual to moderate their own internet experience. If you feel like someone’s going too far for your tastes, make sure you unfollow them and blacklist their url. Everyone is allowed to say whatever they deem appropriate on their private social media accounts, as long as they don’t tag the J’s in their rants.
Personally, I follow people who love the J’s. I don’t mind it that much if they vent and rant their frustration as long as I see they’re coming from a place of love. We don’t actually know the J’s, so it’s impossible to say how they would feel about all this talk about their beards. I avoid the topic myself because it doesn’t interest me very much, but I think it’s great that there are people out there who are interested - the beards are a part of the J’s lives and have roles in this play. They are doing things while I’m looking away, but luckily someone else will catch it and share with us. We all have a part.
Do I wish we would focus more on the positive things at times? Of course, but things aren’t always simple and the J’s life together looks messy at times. I think it’s important that we stay here, face reality head-on and still continue to show our support through the good times and the bad. I hope my response didn’t offend you, darling! I value your friendship greatly. :) Have a wonderful day!
